I thought "Into Darkness" had plenty to say about terrorism, foreign policy, pre-emptive strikes, militarism, etc.
But maybe we're so used to such issues in real life that we don't notice them when they appear in fiction.
To me, ST09 was about aspiring to be more. So many people are content with mediocrity. You certainly know plenty of people like this in real life, branded as "losers" (whether deserved or not).
Pike: 'Cause I looked up your file while you were drooling on the floor. Your aptitude tests are off the charts, so what is it? You like being the only genius-level repeat offender in the Mid-west?
Kirk: Maybe I love it.
Pike: Look, so your dad dies. You can settle for less than an ordinary life. Or do you feel like you were meant for something better? Something special?
TNG's perfect people lectured
ad nauseum about human betterment, advancement, enlightenment, etc.

But ST09
showed an actual human being working toward something better.
Kor