I am an easy pinch with Trek, admittedly. If I like the characters, I'm generally willing to take the ride. That includes every iteration since I began watching in the 70s. I thought people protested way too much, most of the time. (I'm not referring to general criticism, but the almost forensic analysis of things.)
Aesthetically, I'm willing to take the leap with regards to scale and design for TOS era in the modern age. I actually love it.
However, I am confounded at how TPTB seem to continually want to paint themselves into a corner, all in the name of 'Memberberries. The Gorn did not to need to be the Gorn in Strange New Worlds.. They could have named them anything else, La'an did not need to be a Singh. The Metrons did not need to show up in this episode. (Though I admit, I liked their modern interpretation of them, stylistically.)
The episode itself, while not breaking any new ground, was a nice character piece for Ortegas. I'm not sure adding fan service icing on the cake is having the effect they think it is. I found it to detract from things.
They've got 10 episodes a season. They need to make better choices. If you're going to put the Metrons in there, there had better be a damned good reason for doing so.