I think its really interesting when people think a show creator does something intentionally to anger fans. That really makes no sense from their point of view. They want people to watch
Watch what? Its the final episode. No one is watching because the show is over. And, fyi, i was not a J/C fan at the time so it's not because I cared one way or the other about them.
i still stand by my statement that if she had to take a lover (75 years is heck of a long time to live like a nun) it would probably only have worked with Chakotay as they are more equals than anyone else on the ship. The rest are clearly subordinates. As for arguments...
If I remember well my Voyager's archives readings, Kate Mulgrew has clearly made know to producers that she did want that her character, Kathryn Janeway, keep relationship with her First Officer as professional as possible, what meant no sex between them to keep a certain form of respect around her stature of captaincy (I don't know why but I noticed when a male captain shares a romantic link with a subordinate officer, he remains nevertheless a captain with all attributes in viewers mind = he still is the boss!. When a female individual is in the same position, people's reaction tends to be different = because she has sex with a subordinate, the female captain appears weak, losing suddenly her halo). And contrary to Jeri Taylor who wanted to build a relationships mixing friendship and love between Janeway and Chakotay, Rick Berman as Brandon Braga wanted to treat Janeway like they have done with Picard and Sisko before, so as someone strong, independent and capable (and who is recpected and admired for that) who placed her role of captain above all, including her personal (= love) life.
For my part, I'm still convinced that a relationship with her XO would eventually cause problems at the end :
1) because Chakotay would have expected to be treated as equals in the decision-making, at least in private, in seeing his opinion being therefore considered..But it is known howJaneway hates be dictated to conduct: yes, she tolerates and even accepts willingly receive advices from her senior crew but in the end, it is her, as Captain, who makes the final decision, following finally what her instinct dictates.
-> Chakotay's ego would have risked more often than reason to be hurt and because he is her lover, he will have more difficulty to silent his disappointment/frustration in private, in particular, what will end into tensions which eventually affect the bridge and put Janeway in an uncomfortable position, which could lead to a break up.
2) Unless I have missed something, Chakotay and his former crew are still treated as traitors and a criminals by Starfleet, though I don't doubt that Janeway asked to Admirality to drop the charges against them, insisting about their dedication & courage since they joined Voyager (and maybe even expected that the former Maquis crew be cleared quickly after the contact with Starfleet was reconnected... what wasn't done!). Anyway, knowing that Chakotay's situation was still pending, it would have striked the wrong mark for both to be involved in a sexual relationship, no matter the circonstances (= being far witout any idea of an eventual return).
I know that love is blind but this feeling is clearly not shared, not by Janeway in any case!
1. Janeway herself admits in The Disease that she expects Chakotay to question her in private and he says he does so regularly. We just don't see it often though it does crop up in episodes like Hope and Fear, The Omega Directive or Unimatrix Zero.
I do think there might have been some issues here and there if they became romantically involved but that's what makes great love stories interesting. Some angst is a good thing. Happily ever after rarely works on TV.
2. This is probably the only reason that would make sense except it is basically shot down in Life Line when she gets angry about the admiral asking about the Maquis. Clearly it is not an issue for her at all so it can't be a deterrent.
Imo the only reason this doesn't happen is because Janeway is a woman. If the roles were reversed J/C would probably have happened. Heck, Chakotay had a relationship with a member of his crew while Captain....Seska. Hate the idea of a double standard but life is what it is.
I also totally agree Janeway had no interest at all after season 3. That ship had sailed so to speak.