But this was in the context of an ongoing situation in which (from her perspective), Spock keeps prioritizing the Enterprise and Starfleet over their relationship. So that in this instance, when he
again turns to his crew members instead of her, it was the proverbial straw that broke the camel's back. (Do they have camels on Vulcan?)
And that, yes, it was
Chapel who rushed in to heal Spock at the end, interrupting the ceremony, was adding insult to injury. Let's give T'Pring credit for not being completely oblivious to the fact that Spock and Chapel have
some sort of unspoken connection . . . or at least having reason to harbor suspicions along those lines.
"Seriously? You again?"