The church insists you wait until marriage.
PICARD: It seems that some creatures have the capacity to fill spaces you never knew were empty.
Just pointing it out. Frankly none of this means a whole lot as it's all popular fiction but it can be fun and interesting to point out the little details here and there.
Exactly. Why anyone would care if other people like details or not is completely beyond me. Why equate observant eyes with a lack of love, when it's clearly possible that it's the opposite?
Shhh. You're not supposed to bring those inconvenient facts into this discussion.
Who said it's inconvenient, or denied such facts?
some people (and forgive me if I incorrectly lumped you in with them) want everything to look exactly like it did in 1966 with no changes
Haven't seen that opinion here.
I will probably be roped into one of these pointless debates again someday, but I might as well be talking to a brick wall.
Actually, it's two brick walls talking to each other. One likes green, the other likes red, and they tell each other that one color is good and the other is bad.
I'm sure if they (hypothetically) write Captain Kirk into the show and have him able to shoot phasers from his eyes because the showrunners have decided to make him more modern, then different people would be expressing their annoyance with that, and I hope there'd be some understanding to why that might be frustrating.
One new thing I've learned in this round: There would be a good reason for phaser eyes if the showrunner who doesn't even run the show anymore wished for it, or if the VFX team decided to add that.
You can argue that I'm being ridiculous, that the characters and the premise are far more important than the designs we see on screen, but that's just how you feel. It's not an objective universal truth. I feel we'd do better empathising with other people's frustrations instead of accusing them of being inflexible and saying they're like a brick wall.
Most people unfortunately think that whatever their 'side' says is the truth, and whatever the other 'side' says must be wrong. The ones who love green and hate red will never agree with the side that loves red and hates green. The key is letting people have their feelings and their opinions - but that seems pretty difficult to acknowledge. It hurts no one, does no damage whatsoever, and leaves your life completely intact, if other people like things you don't like, or if they find things important that are irrelevant to you.
PICARD: Ladies and gentlemen, it is a Starfleet tradition that at social gatherings, disputes are not permitted. I hereby declare therefore all disagreements resolved.