I meant to address one more part of your post before and forgot. You said, "Why do homophobes always instantly focus on sexual activity?" in response to my post to you.
I want to clarify I am not a homophobe if you define that as having a fear of homosexuals. I don't, and I want to make my stance clear and get your reply. I disagree with homosexuality on moral and religious grounds. I do advocate equal rights for them as well as everyone else.
If you want to classify as a homophobe based on the fact that I speak out against the morality of it, then I accept that label willingly. But it is not out of fear.
Allow me to rephrase. Why do people who disapprove of homosexuality for whatever reason
always instantly focus on sexual activity?
This is Star Trek. Not porn. You're not going to see gay sex. Instead, imagine an episode beginning like this: Ben Sisko and Kasidy Yates are walking down a DS9 corridor. They meet up with a couple of other characters, both male or both female, and head to the Promenade for a double date at Quark's. They get their drinks and start chatting, and suddenly Sisko's combadge transmits the voice of someone asking him to come to Ops because an unidentified fleet of ships just came through the wormhole. Go to opening credits, then return with Sisko in Ops talking to Kira. Kasidy and the other two characters appear a couple of times in the episode as captives of the invading mysterious aliens, and the situation is resolved and the episode ends with the four finally having a chance to relax at Quark's. No kissing, no sex. Just the fact that those two characters exist and have a relationship.
Would you object to an episode like that? I really don't know. Because you're going on about how people would react to scenes of that couple kissing. How would you react if those characters are there and they
don't kiss?
I'm not saying that cannot appear on television or in movies. I am just saying that I wouldn't watch it and many others wouldn't want to either. Just my opinion, okay?
One more time: "I am just saying that I wouldn't watch it" is your opinion. Okay. "and many others wouldn't want to either." There you're speaking for other people, not just for yourself. Not so okay.
ETA: Squire, your tone of civility in this discussion is somewhat at odds with your signature:
"I'm a secular progressive. Weak national defense. No God in public. No family values. Pro-murder of children. Pro-drugs! Income redistribution for crack heads & welfare deadbeats! No hand up, yes...hand out!
I hate America."
Doesn't apply to me personally, because I'm not necessarily a secular progressive; I'm an atheist liberal. For that matter, I'm not American. But a signature file like that is not the sign of someone who has any respect for those who disagree with him; it's insulting and it misrepresents what a lot of people believe in. If someone else's attempt to provoke you is unwarranted, can you really defend using this quote as your signature?