Interesting insightful analysis of my post, I guess the main part of post they forgot was the fact that the minority who were gay in the 24th century were accepted because those people who were bigots (most bigots we know these days are closeted cases), in the 24th century are given the "choice" to fix their sexual orientation via the amazing 24th century medicine. With the bigots out of the way because a truly straight person has no need to be angry about gay people. Reasoning being because it is not like the gay folk are going to steal away their love interests.
Except for that annoying problem that a. if no one has a problem with being gay in 24th century, no one would be afraid of being gay, so there'd be no one who is bigoted because he's gay himself, and b. someone who was like that, would never admit, not even to themselves that they are gay, so they would never "gay-away" their "non-existent" gayness.
Which leads us back to BULLSHIT.
With fewer closet case extremist bigots around more rational minds will prevail and those who choose to stay the way their genes and development made them will be able to live their lives free of hate. I would say int he time of trek it won't be a choice for a person to choose if they want to be gay, it will be a choice for them to decide if they want to remain gay.
And since gay is no longer looked upon as bad by anyone, EVERYONE gay will choose to remain that way.
Or it short, saying all the gays gayed-away themselves and that's why there's less bigotry (but gays somehow are still gaying themselves away) is thinly veiled bigotry of the worst sort.
Of course there will be a small number of folks who may even opt to become gay by choice because they have made a conscious decision to take genetic treatment to become that way.
Right, so now people choose the "straight-away" themselves?
In a way it is enlightening because today having tendencies towards homosexuality is not a choice, but something you are born with.
Ah, here we are. Now we get to the crux of it. It is enlightened to know that being gay is a choice, and in the 24th century they have finally excepted what us god-fearing straight folk have known all along, even if it means having to genetically re-engineer yourself with advanced genetic engineering! And they will burn in...
Well, I guess everyone can see where that's going.
But this could backfire spectacularly, because as Q mentioned that Starfleet is not much different than the Borg when it comes to social conformity. With the pressure to conform and the way to conform being as simple as taking a once in a lifetime hypo-spray it would be easier for people who find out that they have homosexual feelings to simply take a shot when they first realize they have these feeling early on. They would not be making a balanced judgment about their own orientation, but it would still be their choice.
Hey, wait a minute. Didn't you just imply all the bigots were gone because they gayed themselves away? Then why the hell are the other gays now suddenly conforming to those non-existent, gayed-away bigots?
Ah, right, I see: thinly veiled bigoted bullshit.
I know several people who are gay and at some point in their life they have said they if they could have taken a "magic pill" to cure them selves (and some have even gone to Jesus camp, like brainwashing really is all that effective..... sarc...) they would have taken the pill with no hesitation. So in a way being gay may very well be virtually extinct in the 24th century, partly by their own choice, partly by the conformity pressure, and partly by easy effective gene therapy / neuro medicine.
Because they're being discriminated against by bigots, who you said gayed themselves away. No one to be bigoted against them, no one who's going to chance themselvs in an open, non-discriminated, non-bigoted society.
You're trying to have your cake and eat it too...
Oh, right, thinly veiled...
Is it right? Not sure about that one, ask a philosopher, i am wearing the rationalist hat right now, ask me when i have had a few drinks in me and have put on my philosopher's hat.
A rationalist would only need remember the episode with the genderless species, and know it's bullshit.
Conformity seemed to be the norm in starfleet culture, kinda like the

. Q even mentioned this. However the federation is known for tolerance, so there is some hope.

Choosing to
remain gay or choosing to
become straight will become a choice in the 24th century. Today you are pretty much hard wired either way. A fair number of those who are gay may not allow themselves to experince their born into lifestyle because there is a human need to be accepted and to conform and they will be like this:

Well kinda like cardassians, even though they are humans. The human needs for conformity is very

and very

. Some will be proud of who they are will be gay, in a way they will be loud and proud gender/sex warriors:

.
Complete bullshit. There's not Starfleet culture. Starfleet is a military slash exploratory organization. Saying that Starfleet has a culture is saying that Fireman Headquarters has a culture. People IN Starfleet have their OWN culture. There is not a shred of conformity going on, either in Starfleet or the Federation at large. You only have to follow Starfleet rules and regulations while on duty (and to an extent off duty), while people in the Federation barely have any rules beyond, "Don't harm others." You can do whatever you want to do.
And oh, yeah, "born into lifestyle". If there isn't contradiction in terms if I have ever seen one.
Once again: thinly-veiled...