Battles don't tend to be "full course strategic meals." It is not chess or the systematic unfolding of a step-by-step plan. Read about most battles (especially in the Civil War), and the plans go out the window not long after the first shot is fired. "The fog of war" is almost an axiom.
The battle between the Enterprise and Reliant in TWOK relied on Kirk's experience over Khan's as a tactical expert, but little could be planned or orchestrated. Luck was still very important.
The Kelvin v. Narada was chaotic and hard to follow on screen. To that end, for what it's representing, it was quite real. The opening scene of "Saving Private Ryan" is often called one of the most realistic battle scenes ever filmed. It's a disorganized and bloody struggle for survival.
IIRC, the battle in Pvt. Ryan was very understandable. First they disembark, then have to run for cover, then destroy a machine gun nest, climbing a hill before that. It's intense and bloody, but not so chaotic.