welcome! Don't worry, we're a totally harmless and friendly bunch here. There is nothing wrong you could say. Just relax and be yourself (or someone completely different, if you prefer - that's one of the advantages of the internet's anonymity). And there's no hurry - we have many posters who visit only once per week (or every 5 yearsI really don't want to say anything wrong on here. [...] I feel a bit overwhelmed with all the things on here I have read and such. So don't know when I will feel like answering someone.
). Don't be shy - your hubby can confirm that we are nice folks. Hmm, on the other hand: what wife can really trust her husband? I guess you'll simply have to try us out 

