So, here's another thing I got confused about:
We see Michael in an Abrams-style learning pod (with 2017 enhancements) at the "Vulcan Learning Center." She fails to answer a question about the Klingon attack on some installation that was staffed by humans and Vulcans, clearing reacting out of traumatic memory.
Because that's when her family was killed.
Later, we see apparently the same set, same learning pods, in flames. Michael is wounded. This is clearly the attack in which her family was killed,
Huh?
The Vulcan Learning Center and the place where, some time before, her family was killed are the same place. Or identical places.
If nothing else about this begs explanation, one would think that being required to drill in the exact environment where her parents died would be at least as re-traumatizing as having a computer ask her a factual question about the attack.