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I was going to say, what about if you mapped your mind into another body so that you could have sex with yourself through another persons senses, when I realized... Hey! I've already seen that movie. Gay Film director accidentally travels back in time ten years to have sex with himself at a student film festival. Don't remember the name of the movie but it's AWWWWWWful.

Mars.

Imagine that you would be sent to jail if the police found out how much you masturbated.

Now imagine your day in court.

Now imagine your first night in prison.

Now imagine the first time you're raped in prison.

Now just be thankful that legally and morally you're allowed to jerk off till you go blind.
 
No offense, but seriously, WTF?!?!?!?

I am a thirty year old white male who likes and enjoys intimate emotional and physical relationships with other males. Nothing about that is "confused sexual identity", it is what homosexuality is all about--love, sex, connection, intimacy with someone of the same sex, exactly the same as heterosexual couples. The only difference is that both partners have the same junk to ulitise down below.

Whatever applies to a straight couple also applies to gay one, which (by the time of Trek) will include same sex marriage, adoption, and everything else that a lifetime devoted to another person entails.

Well what would you do if you had the opportunity to change your body from male to female, that way you could be attracted to males and have the right "equipment" to match your "software". I notice your picture is that of a woman, what if you could be her? I guess what I'm saying is what if in the 24th century is was possible to match sexual orientation to one's gender? if such was the case, there would be a very good reason why there were no homosexual characters, as they all altered their bodies to match their minds.
Mars did you not read my post? I am a man who likes men. I'm not into drag queens, transvestites, transexuals or women. I am happy with the body I am in now (though could afford to drop a couple pounds but thats beside the point) and I know what kind of man I am attracted to. I wouldn't want to change anything about that, nor would a huge majority of gay man or woman.

So by this reasoning should all bisexual people want to swap bodies with a hermaphrodite?

As for my previous avatar, that was the very lovely Alyson Hannigan who "plays" a character in my fanfic. I admit she is an attractive woman, a great actress and seems like an all round nice person, she is still a woman, so therefore of no interest to me, either to swap bodies with or sleep with.

Wait... you are a man, and you like men? dude that means you're... OMG your gay! :eek:

Ok I have to admit, I am a little shocked, and I am getting scared.
Would someone please hold me?

OK, could someone not gay, hold me? :guffaw:

All bad jokes aside, I loved your Alyson Hannigan avatar by the way. I've thought, for over a decade now, that Alyson is the most beautiful woman in the world.
And if you do ever trade bodies with her, my number is 555-5555, call me :techman:
 
Wait... you are a man, and you like men? dude that means you're... OMG your gay! :eek:

Ok I have to admit, I am a little shocked, and I am getting scared.
Would someone please hold me?

OK, could someone not gay, hold me? :guffaw:
:lol:

All bad jokes aside, I loved your Alyson Hannigan avatar by the way. I've thought, for over a decade now, that Alyson is the most beautiful woman in the world.
She (as with all my avatars) was made by the highly talented FltCpt. Bossco, as the visual representation for the crew of the Silverfin. Though I'm not interested in women, I can appreciate an attractive face and form and Ms Hannigan is definately that.

And if you do ever trade bodies with her, my number is 555-5555, call me :techman:
Never going to happen I'm afraid (see previous comments :)). Besides, how would you react if you're going at it with Ms Hannigan and she looks deep into your eyes, a wicked smile spread across her face and she announces, "I'm actually a dude who possessed Alyson Hannigan's body, but please don't stop!"

I'll leave you to go and rock back and forth in a corner now :evil::evil::evil:
 
Thank you, KB_Kandy, couldn't have said it better myself.

Usually if I want to think about a homosexual, I imagine what would happen if I woke up in a female body, but with my mind the same as it was including sexual attractions. Everything about me would be the same except my body shape would be different and my physical attributes would be female, and I would be attracted to females. That is how I think of lesbians. Maybe lesbians are a little more complicated than that, but as someone trying to project himself in a different character,that is how I would do it.

Suffice to say, I would not want to be in a female body for too long, even if it were a beautiful one, I'd much better appreciate female beauty when I'm not wearing it.

...Continued

Saito S said:
And no, having aliens that are homosexual is not the same as having some of the human character being homosexual. It's certainly not at all BAD, and can be interesting from the standpoint of exploring said alien culture, but the issue is how homosexuality for humans is depicted in this show about humanity's future, about showing that in said future, our race has finally gotten over this incredibly outdated, worthless idea that being homosexual should be viewed as anything other than perfectly normal, perfectly healthy, and perfectly acceptable. Thus, the inclusion of gay characters who are human is important.
I agree completely. If you have asexual hermaphrodite aliens and the like, it might make for an interesting biological discrepancy to define the alien and add to the "alien" experience, but it does nothing to support the LGBT.
And what you and others are wanting is to push LGBT, "Trek and entertainment be damned, I want to push my politics" is what I said (paraphrased) in an earlier post in this thread. And someone asked "who's saying that?" well the answer is you are Saito.

I don't want to oppress gays or promote them, I don't care about gays. I care about gays like I care about trains and tie dye t-shirts. I'm not against it, and I'm not for it, I just don't care.
You say "in said future, our race has finally gotten over this incredibly outdated, worthless idea that being homosexual should be viewed as anything other than perfectly normal, perfectly healthy, and perfectly acceptable."
The problem I have with this statement is you act as if this is a universal truth like water is wet, fire burns, gravity gives an object weight. You act as if it is a testable and undeniable truth rather than just a current theory held by the slight majority. You say it's perfectly normal. Normal is an ambiguous term, at it's base it means majority, occurs often, expected, within parameters. Being left handed is abnormal, because it occurs in only 7% - 10% of the population. It isn't evil or bad, it just isn't normal. Neither is being gay which occurs even less than being left handed.

If you mean "mentally healthy" well it was only in 1973 that it got dropped from psychologies holy book the DSM. And that was due to political pressures, and not based on new evidence, or a new psychology paradigm. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diagnostic_and_Statistical_Manual_of_Mental_Disorders Scroll down to "Seventh printing of the DSM-II, 1974"

As far as "perfectly acceptable" If it were perfectly acceptable, than it would be accepted by everyone, and you wouldn't need to push it. What you are saying is you "want" it to be perfectly acceptable, rather than "you're an idiot for not accepting that it already is perfectly acceptable".
We also make assumptions like "they were born that way". I hear so many times a christian bible thumper bitching about homosexuality, and some liberal retorts "everyone knows gay's don't have a choice, they were born that way."
Well I doubt any sexual preference or fetish is a conscious choice, but I am highly skeptical on people born with a fetish or a sexual preference. I think it can be easily argued that for some people it is the result of abuse or trauma (I said some people). People who go to prison and are raped frequently, in a culture that says "a man puts it in you, a fagot has a man put it in him" enough years of that psychological trauma can mess people up, and they have went to prison straight, came out gay or bi.
To what extent is any mental illness or state of mind nature or nurture, is an on going debate, and therefore to say "they were born that way" as if this were an undeniable scientifically proven fact, is ignorance.
Furthermore, there are evolutionary reasons why I don't think homosexuality would be a natural genetic outcome. A characteristic, either physical, or neurological, is the result of what works. "Works" meaning what will produce the highest abundance of healthy offspring. Two men or two women can produce no offspring. So if evolution is true, this characteristic should have been weeded out of the gene pool, or more accurately never been in our gene pool to begin with. I am willing to believe that "some" people are born gay, but the percentage would have to be on par with Siamese twins, being born blind, being born deaf, being born with two sexual organs, or being born with any abnormality that would render the chance of finding a mate and reproducing, virtually non-existent.

I don't personally care if homosexuality is a choice or not. If it were a choice, and you chose to be gay, what's wrong with that? Is it really any different whether you were "born" gay or whether you "chose" to be gay? I don't personally think so, so it shouldn't matter or have impact on social acceptance.

I feel the need to re-iterate the point that I am not claiming I believe homosexuality is a mental illness, or the result of abuse. Though I do stand by my belief that it is way too common to be explained by genetic chance). I am merely stating that these things are open to debate, thus wanting a mainstream entertainment industry to push only your side of the debate as fact, is deceptive propaganda, and anyone who screams "homophobe" during these details, is coping out due to lack of debating skills. healthy, normal, acceptable, is not a fact, it's your own political theory and agenda.

And you have basically confessed an earlier point I made, that for some people, the idea of a gay character has nothing to do with the marketability, or the entertainment value, of a franchise, but with pushing a political agenda.

I am not here to push a political agenda, my objection to a gay character is not routed in a political or spiritual belief system, it is based on what I perceive to be marketable and entertaining. If there is a new trek, and it does have a gay character, and that gay character is entertaining, than that's great. But before I see it, and I am asked "should we put a gay in there?" my default answer is "no, I don't think a gay would add anything to writing, or the ratings, or the character cast dynamic."

Now someone talked about Travis on Enterprise could have been made a gay character. I agree. After they had nothing for him, gave him no development, and pushed him so far in to the background, yes, Travis could have come out of the closet and be gay, and I honestly feel that would revitalize the character, give him a fresh start.
I recall an episode where it was Malcolm Reed's birthday, and Hoshi wanted to get him the perfect birthday present. But the problem was he was such a secretive guy, no one knew anything about him. I tell you, I had this strange feeling that when they were digging through his files and his life, at the end they were going to find out he was gay somehow. I just had that feeling. Although that never came to fruition. So I think Travis and Malcolm should have paired up and been gay. Considering how little these characters got used, it would have made them more entertaining.

Or what about Malcolm and that paramilitary leader, I forget what that squad was called, but they were the military guys on enterprise during the Xindi plot, and Malcolm and the leader of the team hated each other, and then started fist fighting. You know, if that were a male and female, all that hatred would have been called "pent up sexual frustration" and they would have fought and then started kissing. You know if that had been a guy and girl, you know that's how it would have ended. Well, it still should have ended that way. That would have blown my mind LOL.

So yes, a gay character "could" work, it could be interesting. And if Star Trek ever was a pioneer of civil rights (which aside from Roddenberry's wife as Number One, on the TOS pilot, and having a black woman on the bridge) is debatable. Beyond Number One, and Uhura, I don't see a ton of civil rights advocacy from Trek. Sure it's there, but I think the fans amplify through perception just how much it's there. If indeed Star Trek is a champion of civil rights, they totally dropped the ball on Enterprise. It would have been understandable to "try" to make an appealing gay character in 2001. I think by 2012, "trying" to make an appealing gay character is just jumping on the band wagon, lacks shock value, and is almost certainly going to be the focus of the LGBT hatred. After all, one stereotype and LGBT screams about the stereotype. Lack certain stereotypes and LGBT will scream about the portrayal of gays. There is no satisfying the LGBT, and therefore my advice is to not try to satisfy them, just ignore them, and make an entertaining show.


Maurice said:
Change "homosexual" to "black" and maybe you'll see the point, but I doubt it. The double-standard is staring back at you from the mirror. Enjoy the view, ugly as it is.

Nope, already covered that. In fact, the black token, is what launched my fear of the gay token.
There is nothing wrong with a character being played by a black actor, but when you deliberately stick a black person in there to fill a quota, or push diversity, you create a token.
Also, there is a huge difference between a gay character and a black, Hispanic, or female character. Race and sex is what you are, gay is what you do.

If you write a character, and a black person auditions, and you hire him, your character, who was never written with race in mind, is now a black character because he is played by a black actor.

If you hire a gay person to play the character, the character doesn't become gay. Takei was gay, but the character Sulu was not.

So you don't have to "write" a black character, all you really have to do is write a character and hire a black person. It's when you do write the character as black, you've either created an obnoxious and offensive stereotype, or pointless token.
My advice to Hollywood "stop writing black characters, and start hiring more black actors"

But when you write a gay character, the character has to be written gay. i.e he must be flamboyant and prance around like a sissy, listen to lady gaga, gossip about fashion, and shout faaaabulous. That's "acting" gay. That's a gay character. Or he must make out with a man, or just offhandedly mention his boyfriend, husband, he's gay, in order for the audience to know that he is gay.
If a character never makes out with a member of the same sex, never mentions they're gay, and doesn't lisp and prance around, how would you ever know he was a gay character? You wouldn't.
Again, race and sex are what you are, gay is what you do.
So for all you LGBT's out there, just look at all the Star Trek extras that aren't with a member of the opposite sex, hey, they might be gay.

Again, the token aspect, if you write a gay character, you have to write him as gay, why write a gay character if you're not trying to please the LGBT? Don't please the LGBT's or any other loud obnoxious vocal political minority, just write an entertaining show. It's too late to be shocking, risky, or champion a social cause for the gays, it's 2012, the time to have done it for those reasons would have been the Enterprise series.

Although, as with my example of Travis and Malcolm, I think making characters, with no development, suddenly gay, or suddenly realize their homosexuality, could actually revitalize an otherwise stale, and boring character with no development. This would actually be the ideal scenario to create a gay character. After all, if the character is slowly becoming an extra, and has no purpose, it sure as hell can't hurt the character, and could be a way to develop him.

Now if they had made T'Pol and Hoshi gay lovers, that would have pissed me off. Because it would have been capitalizing on the girl on girl phenomenon that permeated Hollywood alongside rough tough women who smack men around when they get out of line. It would have been one more Hollywood cliché rubbed in our face. And the other reason it would bother me is it would be an attempt to appeal to the lowest common denominator and attract viewers with hot steamy lesbian scenes.
Look, a year after Sara Michelle Gellar did the girl on girl kiss in Cruel Intentions, girl on girl action was a cliché to the point of that kiss scene being parodied a dozen times.
I cringe every time I see the steamy scene with Trip and T'Pol rubbing disinfectant oil all over their bodies, with closeups that made it look like a scene out of a Cinimax movie. The first time I seen that I thought "oh god, they're so desperate for viewers they are trying to get the Baywatch audience to tune in."
So in some characters, making them gay could have worked, in other characters it would have made it so much worse.



How would they have gotten pregnant to begin with?


Actually, Gender Identity Disorder (GID) is strongly linked with Homosexuality and visa versa. In spite of the fact that Homosexuality got politically muscled out of the DSM in 1973, it often pops up as contributing factor, or association, with many other identity, gender, dissociative, compulsory, disorders.
Here's a link on GID http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_identity_disorder
So it is reasonable to assume that a lot of people who are homosexual are only that way as a result of a knee jerk reaction to not liking the responsibility or restrictions of their gender role, and homosexuality being a manifestation of this. This would apply to some, but not all cases of homosexuality and transgenderism.


Did you miss her post about the fact that most Lesbians don't actually want to be male, and most gays don't actually want to be female?
I think a future where an adult can choose to have a new body assigned to them, by choice, would be pretty cool. After all, some people want to be a different sex. Though it is unfair to force this on them. Of course the greater advantage would be immortality, just keep switching bodies before you die LOL

Guy Gardener said:
There's a difference between aspergers and being offensively homophobic.
Oh come on, that's not fair, he is not being offensively homophobic, he is discussing the rationality of a gay Star Trek character, and on certain aspects of homosexuality, he has a difficult time understanding because he has a difficult time relating to things far removed from him.
He hasn't said anything like you're all going to burn in hell, you are disgusting freaks, you should be beaten, hurt, imprisoned, etc.
He hasn't said anything deliberately hurtful to anyone here.

Maurice said:
Right there is the issue. You see it as a "problem" that needs fixing, rather than just accepting that it's just one of the many ways sexual desire manifests itself in the species (and not just ours).

That, sir, is a beautiful statement.
I remember being a youngster and hearing people talk about homosexuality as if it were a defect, and gays were suffering this "disease". And I remember thinking "but what if the gays don't mind being the way they are?"
There seemed to always be that assumption that gay people were somehow "broken". You'd be surprised how many people can't wrap their heads around the concept that most homosexuals don't view themselves as "broken" or "defective" and are perfectly content with the way they are, and simply wish the people around them would get over it and be happy with them being the way they are.

And wholly crap, Maurice, you're a bastard! I am actually beginning to see how important it might be to a gay person to have their choice/lifestyle/sexuality, be promoted as something "acceptable" and I now understand a little better the demand for a gay character.

Maurice, you bastard, you've made this Grinche's heart grow 5 sizes today.

Fine. I am in favor of a gay character in the new Star Trek series. But he better be a real character, a great actor, and not just some token to please the LGBT.
 
Swapping bodies with Hannigan would be cool, or at least having it....though I'd probably want to keep my junk, since one of my fan fic characters looks and sounds like a girl, but is biologically a male, and she's one of my favorite characters I made....even looks like an anime take on Hannigan.

Anyhow, I'll love to see the reactions from the audience in responce to a gay character. Hell, if Doctor Who can have Captain Jack Harkness, who's sexual orientation is he'll love and sleep with anyone/thing with a post code, so why not Trek. One minute, he's blasting insect monsters or canabalistic hillbillies, and another he's caught by a girl when he's sleeping with a dude and invites the girl to join in. Gotta love it.:D
 
Anyhow, I'll love to see the reactions from the audience in responce to a gay character. Hell, if Doctor Who can have Captain Jack Harkness, who's sexual orientation is he'll love and sleep with anyone/thing with a post code, so why not Trek. One minute, he's blasting insect monsters or canabalistic hillbillies, and another he's caught by a girl when he's sleeping with a dude and invites the girl to join in. Gotta love it.:D
Especially when Doctor Who is aimed at a young-ish audience as well, it was a brave and very important move to make.

I would think that by the 24th century, most humans would be like that. Hell they can accept sleeping with aliens, many of which will have hugely different genitalia and methods of intercourse.
 
Anyhow, I'll love to see the reactions from the audience in responce to a gay character. Hell, if Doctor Who can have Captain Jack Harkness, who's sexual orientation is he'll love and sleep with anyone/thing with a post code, so why not Trek. One minute, he's blasting insect monsters or canabalistic hillbillies, and another he's caught by a girl when he's sleeping with a dude and invites the girl to join in. Gotta love it.:D
Especially when Doctor Who is aimed at a young-ish audience as well, it was a brave and very important move to make.

I would think that by the 24th century, most humans would be like that. Hell they can accept sleeping with aliens, many of which will have hugely different genitalia and methods of intercourse.

It was only logical, since Doctor Who is not really a "kids show" since it has a very large adult audience, it's for eveyone.
 
Anyhow, I'll love to see the reactions from the audience in responce to a gay character. Hell, if Doctor Who can have Captain Jack Harkness, who's sexual orientation is he'll love and sleep with anyone/thing with a post code, so why not Trek. One minute, he's blasting insect monsters or canabalistic hillbillies, and another he's caught by a girl when he's sleeping with a dude and invites the girl to join in. Gotta love it.:D
Especially when Doctor Who is aimed at a young-ish audience as well, it was a brave and very important move to make.

I would think that by the 24th century, most humans would be like that. Hell they can accept sleeping with aliens, many of which will have hugely different genitalia and methods of intercourse.

No, most humans would be heterosexual just like they are today, sleeping with aliens aside. Remember the television show Caprica, recall the Gay hitman who was Joseph Adama's brother? Notice how his husband quickly disappeared into the background after it was revealed that they were a gay married couple? I believe if you introduced a gay character in Star Trek, it will be like that. The main problem from the producers perspective is there just isn't as many gay people as straight people, and most straights are tuning in to watch science fiction, not a bunch of gay romances, if they see too many of the later, they'll tune out and watch something else, maybe it will attract a gay audience but it won't be as large, the producer of Caprica knew this full well.
 
No, most humans would be heterosexual just like they are today, sleeping with aliens aside. Remember the television show Caprica, recall the Gay hitman who was Joseph Adama's brother? Notice how his husband quickly disappeared into the background after it was revealed that they were a gay married couple? I believe if you introduced a gay character in Star Trek, it will be like that. The main problem from the producers perspective is there just isn't as many gay people as straight people, and most straights are tuning in to watch science fiction, not a bunch of gay romances, if they see too many of the later, they'll tune out and watch something else, maybe it will attract a gay audience but it won't be as large, the producer of Caprica knew this full well.
I never saw Caprica, so I know nothing about the series or the characters. It doesn't matter though that the relationship wasn't the forefront of the series. Was it a major plot point? Doesn't sound to be. Were the both the lead characters? Main characters though not the lead, so their relationship doesn't have to be the focus. Which is exactly how it should be in a Trek series. Have it present but don't make a big fuss about it, have them occassionally do all the couple kind of things that the O'Brien's did, or Worf and Dax. Both couples were married on DS9, had the odd episode about their relationships and family life, but it wasn't the focus of the series, just an indication that life exists out of the uniform.

I have never once said to turn Trek into a "gay romance series", but its never been a "straight romance series" either. The characters have had romantic encounters, some have gotten/been married, etc, which is what is needed to help tell stories about the characters.

It's all about representation of diversity, different lifestyles and beliefs, then showing that all are accepted by the time of Trek. If you don't want to see it, there are hundreds of other channels and thousands of other shows out there to watch.

I just find it a shame that people who watch and like Trek, to the point where they participate is discussion boards have missed an underlying principle of Star Trek.
 
I just find it a shame that people who watch and like Trek, to the point where they participate is discussion boards have missed an underlying principle of Star Trek.
They like it because of the kewl 'xplosions and the shiny spaceships. I suppose it's not their faul. I mean, I guess there must be people who loved Moby Dick for the endless descriptions of whale mating behaviour, completely oblivious to the narrative.
 
They like it because of the kewl 'xplosions and the shiny spaceships. I suppose it's not their faul. I mean, I guess there must be people who loved Moby Dick for the endless descriptions of whale mating behaviour, completely oblivious to the narrative.
True. Plus in later series, large-breasted women in inappropriate catsuits.
 
I just find it a shame that people who watch and like Trek, to the point where they participate is discussion boards have missed an underlying principle of Star Trek.
They like it because of the kewl 'xplosions and the shiny spaceships. I suppose it's not their faul. I mean, I guess there must be people who loved Moby Dick for the endless descriptions of whale mating behaviour, completely oblivious to the narrative.

I like whale porn.

What? Am I missing something? :confused:



;)
 
You have to remember that Jadzia Dax was a composite personality. Dax is actually a seperate organism from Jadzia the host. Dax has had many hosts, some male and some female, and Dax carries memories from host to host, so she remembers being male and she remembers being female.

Another situation occured in the original series when Kirk exchanged bodies with a woman through some ancient device, actually it was the womans idea, because she wanted to be captain of a starship, and the only way she could think of doing that was by inhabiting Kirk's body by exchanging minds with him. Kirk ended up in her body while she ended up in his. Well Kirk had to convince everybody she was Kirk so the two could exchange bodies back again to set things right.

Yes, we've all seen these epidsodes.
What's all this got to do with ... anything?

Lots it has to do with people with confused sexual identity which is what Homosexuality is all about. The Original Series episode was about a woman trying to deal with its a mans world and only men can be star ship captains by inhabiting the body of a starship captain. It was a rather awkward way of dealing with the problem. So what do you think, can the old body switch fix homosexuality? Oh I see were not supposed to do that, we not supposed to give a gay man a female body, not supposed to give a lesbian a male body, that would resolve the situation to easily and the pro-gay people don't want it resolved that way.
OMG, how can one even respond to such an offensive post without sinking down to such a low level?

I am not Gay because I want to be a woman, I have no desire whatsoever to be a woman, I am happy and proud to be a man, I just happen to be attracted to the male form.

Stopping now, before I say something equally as offensive as your post :rolleyes:
 
You don't write a character with heterosexuality in mind any more than you write him to be right handed. We automatically assume a man is straight, right handed, and has two testicles.

Well, as a left-handed gay dude, I might write different characters than you would.

Your point about never seeing PDAs from gays is laughably obtuse. It is still dangerous for gays to show public affection. Guys have gotten beaten up in Boystown this year, and you never know who's around that will react.

Increased visibility on tv leads to increased acceptance leads to a better environment overall for gays. Not showing it on tv because you haven't seen it perpetuates the same problem.
 
Obviously never been to a gay club plenty of public displays of affection the last time I went to one. I've also had guys touch my arse and hit on me. Laughed and told them I was straight. The only time it has bothered me is when a guy kept asking after I told him I wasn't interested.

I don't get why it bothers people so much. There's a certain level when it becomes "come on guys, there's a time and a place" but that's true whether straight or gay.
 
Usually if I want to think about a homosexual, I imagine what would happen if I woke up in a female body, but with my mind the same as it was including sexual attractions. Everything about me would be the same except my body shape would be different and my physical attributes would be female, and I would be attracted to females. That is how I think of lesbians. Maybe lesbians are a little more complicated than that, but as someone trying to project himself in a different character,that is how I would do it.

Since you're that good at imagining things, take it a step further.

You're attracted to women, you are not attracted to male features, male body parts or body odour. Possibly they put you off. I'd presume that if you came in close contact with another man's genitalia you wouldn't be very happy about it. Now, you don't mind your own – you've lived with them your whole life, you've had plenty of time to get used to them.

Now, imagine that through all that that time you weren't a man, you were a woman. Never had any contact with male anatomy, you never had the opportunity to get used to them in any way, shape or form, and the only association a penis brings in your mind is another man's penis. Something you aren't attracted to.

And now suddenly someone comes to you and tells you that you have to grow one. Doesn't sound so neat that way, eh?

P.S. The above post just tries to present another perspective, it is by no means an attempt to describe how a lesbian woman feels in reality. If you tried to apply it to all people it's probably as bad as the original attempt to tell other people how they feel
 
No, most humans would be heterosexual just like they are today, sleeping with aliens aside. Remember the television show Caprica, recall the Gay hitman who was Joseph Adama's brother? Notice how his husband quickly disappeared into the background after it was revealed that they were a gay married couple? I believe if you introduced a gay character in Star Trek, it will be like that. The main problem from the producers perspective is there just isn't as many gay people as straight people, and most straights are tuning in to watch science fiction, not a bunch of gay romances, if they see too many of the later, they'll tune out and watch something else, maybe it will attract a gay audience but it won't be as large, the producer of Caprica knew this full well.
I also haven't seen Caprica, but you are still completely missing the point.

NO ONE is talking about "a bunch of gay romances."

There is TONS of romance on Star Trek already. TONS. Too much, actually, if you ask me; "romance of the week" stories should be scaled WAY back or even eliminated entirely, because they are usually idiotic. But that aside, my point is, you have this stuff happening already. So all you have to do is make SOME of that romance gay. That's it.

You keep doing this; someone makes a new point or reiterates an old point about the complete lack of reasons to NOT include gay characters in some way, and you come roaring back with "So you want to turn Star Trek into a gay soap opera?!"

This discussion is going to continue to go in circles until you (and a few others) realize the simple fact that showing homosexual characters will not make the show any more about "gayness" or "romance" than it ALREADY IS about "straightness" or, again, "romance".

Additionally, no one is talking about having more than 50% (or even exactly 50%) of said romantic happenings be homosexual in nature, either. Just that it should be happening at ALL.

The idea that introducing gay romance would in any way be "shoving gayness in our faces" or "turning Trek into a romance story" or any such nonsense is nothing more than a giant strawman at this point, and I wish people would stop repeating it.

And Bry brings up a good point: since we are talking about the existence of homosexual characters and relationships on the show, and demonstrating that other human characters would be fine with such things, the idea that in the 24th century, Humans would be ok with members of their species sleeping with Vulcans, Klingons, etc., but WOULDN'T be ok with a Human male sleeping with another Human male, is preposterous. :lol:

Re: the "1.4% of Americans are gay" statistic in the article that RB_Kandy linked to: I don't buy that, frankly. For a number of reasons, the actual number of gay people in this country is likely to be massively under-reported, if anything.

But even putting that aside: you say you've never even seen two gay men kiss in real life. If we are talking anecdotes, I have, and I personally know ten gay and/or bi people (some men, some women). That's WELL more than 1.4% of all the people I know. Now, granted, I live in a pretty accepting, gay-friendly area, but that's really part of my point. For any given group of people (such as, say... the crew of a ship), the number of them that is homosexual is not going to always be equal to the country-wide statistical average. We've had five series and eleven movies, throughout which the percentage of homosexual characters has consistently been zero. Time to go the other direction.
 
Re: the "1.4% of Americans are gay" statistic in the article that RB_Kandy linked to: I don't buy that, frankly. For a number of reasons, the actual number of gay people in this country is likely to be massively under-reported, if anything.
I thought that conservative estimates were that around 10% of the population was homosexual? That of course doesn't include bisexuals, curious/questioning, or those in total denial. Then you have to take into thought asexuals and pansexuals, as well as the transgender.

We're a very diverse people, who love in our own unique ways. It's not going away so man up and accept it: people are different, such is life, just be sure to live a good one.
 
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