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Some homos enjoy that their genitalia is identical to their sex parter and even might perfer it.

Makes them stand out, they like being different in that case, but they don't want anyone to notice they are different. A body switch, sex change or mind alteration would destroy that uniqueness and they would be just like everyone else.

I don't know it makes little sense to me, I thought the problem of homosexuality was that of a woman's mind in a man's body or a man's mind in a woman's body figuratively speaking of course. If we give them a body to match their mind, they are still not happy about it, would anything make them happy?
 
I thought the problem of homosexuality was that of a woman's mind in a man's body or a man's mind in a woman's body figuratively speaking of course.
No. And you should probably stop giving advice about subjects you clearly don't understand.
 
Taboo subject, I understand, then why bring it up here if no one was supposed to talk about it, or everyone was supposed to agree? Yeah yeah, totally correct 100%. will give the poster a pat on the back and say attaboy.
 
I thought the problem of homosexuality was that of a woman's mind in a man's body or a man's mind in a woman's body figuratively speaking of course.
No. And you should probably stop giving advice about subjects you clearly don't understand.

Yeah, that's a gender identity issue; that's not homosexuality.

Exactly, he seems to have some jumbled idea of homosexuality and transsexuality and not much understanding of either.
 
She did. I also think of the "Dax" thing as a sexual preference mixing. Both hosts were willing, which makes it a lesbian act, but the lives that were in love inside of them were heterosexual and therefore so was their love.

You have to remember that Jadzia Dax was a composite personality. Dax is actually a seperate organism from Jadzia the host. Dax has had many hosts, some male and some female, and Dax carries memories from host to host, so she remembers being male and she remembers being female.

Another situation occured in the original series when Kirk exchanged bodies with a woman through some ancient device, actually it was the womans idea, because she wanted to be captain of a starship, and the only way she could think of doing that was by inhabiting Kirk's body by exchanging minds with him. Kirk ended up in her body while she ended up in his. Well Kirk had to convince everybody she was Kirk so the two could exchange bodies back again to set things right.

Yes, we've all seen these epidsodes.
What's all this got to do with ... anything?

With the topic as the OP posted it? Nothing. I was just responding to a question and comment another poster made. I'm a DS9 fan, so I tend to comment on DS9 stuff.

Oh yeah, I forgot about her. Everyone always thinks of the "Dax" thing (which I never thought made much sense since she and Kahn were heterosexual), but Mirror Kira was...


...wait, didn't she go both ways?

:vulcan:

She did. I also think of the "Dax" thing as a sexual preference mixing. Both hosts were willing, which makes it a lesbian act, but the lives that were in love inside of them were heterosexual and therefore so was their love.

You have to remember that Jadzia Dax was a composite personality. Dax is actually a seperate organism from Jadzia the host. Dax has had many hosts, some male and some female, and Dax carries memories from host to host, so she remembers being male and she remembers being female.

Another situation occured in the original series when Kirk exchanged bodies with a woman through some ancient device, actually it was the womans idea, because she wanted to be captain of a starship, and the only way she could think of doing that was by inhabiting Kirk's body by exchanging minds with him. Kirk ended up in her body while she ended up in his. Well Kirk had to convince everybody she was Kirk so the two could exchange bodies back again to set things right.

I know that bonding with her symbiont made it a blending of personalities, if you will, but Jadzia was in the forefront and in control. She made a conscious decision to allow the feelings she felt from one of her hosts play out with someone else, hence choosing a lesbian sexual experience since the other person was also female. The two hosts that were married, of course, were a heterosexual man and woman.

I don't see how the TOS incident plays into this, but okay.
 
No. And you should probably stop giving advice about subjects you clearly don't understand.

Yeah, that's a gender identity issue; that's not homosexuality.

Exactly, he seems to have some jumbled idea of homosexuality and transsexuality and not much understanding of either.

Well this thread will have really done some good if it helps to educate this poster and other readers here. He's probably not the only one with some confusion on the issue.
 
Lots it has to do with people with confused sexual identity which is what Homosexuality is all about.
Not even close my friend, you will sometime see young people in their teen years being initially confused as to what their sexuality actual is. This isn't a case of all homosexuality being the product of confusion, rather an individual figuring out by looking inside themselves what their particular sexual identity is. I didn't go through that myself, but it isn't too uncommon.

The Original Series episode was about a woman trying to deal with its a mans world and only men can be star ship captains ...
While it's not impossible that Humanity was going through a time period of societal organization where only males could command starships, most people who analyze this episode (it's Turnabout Intruder) seem to agree that the real reason Janice Lester could not rise to the position of starship commander is because she suffered from psychological problems. It wasn't because she was female.

First, being gay doesn't need to "be fixed."

But let me see if I can directly answer your question. Would Kirk retain his existing sexual orientation towards being sexual attracted to women? Or because his personality, his consciousness, is now inside of Janice's biological brain, would he assume Janice's sexual orientation (presumably heterosexual) and become attracted to men?

It's actual difficult to say.

Problem there is, gay men don't want to have a vagina. They want to have sex with other men employing their penis to do so.

Same deal, lesbians don't want to have a penis, they like their vaginas, and they really like having sex with people who also possess a vagina.

... that would resolve the situation to easily
The people in the gay community who might like this ability, would be people in the transgender community. Sex reassignment surgery (SRS) is a expensive and somewhat arduous undertaking. Admittedly not all transgenders want SRS (I personally don't), but assuming you could pair off a suitable M2F, with a reciprocal F2M, the procedure could be quite beneficial.

... and the pro-gay people don't want it resolved that way.
Obviously not, with the exception I sighted.

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Alright, alright, it is useless for me to figure this out. I like things and people to be in nice neat categories so I can understand them. I have a condition called Aspergers Syndrome, and because of that, I don't fit in a lot of places, I don't expect the world to change or try to understand me, if I could fit in better I would, I assumed the same of homosexuals, but perhaps I'm wrong on that score. No big deal, and no offense intended by the way. One of the difficulties I have because of Aspergers is putting myself in other people's shoes, doesn't mean I don't try, but it is still me in those shoes. I can't imagine myself being attracted to a male, I figure its hard wired and biological, something like Homosexuality is sort of like crosswiring.
 
I had this wierd news of the world collection novella that talked about a married couple who half way through their marriage in the 80s both changed gender and continued to live happily ever after.

Wierdos.
 
I can't imagine myself being attracted to a male, I figure its hard wired and biological, something like Homosexuality is sort of like crosswiring.
Ohhh, and you were so close. Here let me fix it for you ...

I can't imagine myself being attracted to a male, I figure Heterosexuality is hard wired and biological, just like Homosexuality.

:):):) That's better. :):):)

Some homos enjoy that their genitalia is identical to their sex parter and even might perfer it.

Makes them stand out, they like being different in that case, but they don't want anyone to notice they are different.
This is Paulista Avenue, in São Paulo, Brazil on June 10, 2012, during the annual Gay Pride Parade . This year the theme was Homophobia Has a Cure. Over three million people came to march and watch and support. We like it when people notice us.

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A body switch, sex change or mind alteration would destroy that uniqueness and they would be just like everyone else.
Not everyone want to be like everyone else, I love my uniqueness.

I thought the problem of homosexuality was that of a woman's mind in a man's body or a man's mind in a woman's body
No, that isn't being homosexual, that's being transgender.

... would anything make them happy?
Your love and support would be nice.

:)
 
I don't know it makes little sense to me, I thought the problem of homosexuality was that of a woman's mind in a man's body or a man's mind in a woman's body figuratively speaking of course.
The problem of homosexuals is bigoted people telling them they have a problem and need to be fixed.
 
...I thought the problem of homosexuality...
Emphasis mine.

Right there is the issue. You see it as a "problem" that needs fixing, rather than just accepting that it's just one of the many ways sexual desire manifests itself in the species (and not just ours).
 
Taboo subject, I understand, then why bring it up here if no one was supposed to talk about it, or everyone was supposed to agree?
I'm not saying that people shouldn't discuss the subject, I'm saying that you specifically shouldn't attempt to give advice on the issue as you have a complete misunderstanding of what homosexuality is.

I can't imagine myself being attracted to a male
Me either, but I do understand why lesbians are attracted to women. ;) And I can accept that most women are attracted to men, even if I don't get the appeal myself, so it's not that difficult to accept that some men do too.
 
Bry_Sinclair said:
RB_Kandy said:
Heck if you want to be racy, than create a genuine homophobic character, I mean DSM clinical homophobia where he is terrified that all the males around him are secretly gay and are trying to get him into homoerotic situations. Plenty of opportunities for laughs and we'd be laughing at homophobes.

We shouldn't poke fun, we should pity them. Its really pretty sad that there are such small-minded numpties out there who can't accept difference.

Well I can understand the part about the rudeness of picking on someone with a mental problem. However, even if a person has a fear of spiders, I could see putting a fake spider on someone's bed to freak them out. It would be horribly cruel, yet there would be an element of humor.
However, I don't understand your statement about them being small minded. Perhaps you don't understand clinical homophobia.
It is an irrational fear that cannot be controlled. It is similar to arachnophobia, these people aren't close minded like the individual that won't even try some sort of food they never heard of, they are just preoccupied with the thought of a dangerous icky, poisonous spider crawling across their body. They check under their bed, they check their pillow cases, and check under the blankets to make sure no spider is waiting for them. They check their shoes first thing in the morning to make sure a spider didn't crawl into their shoes, and they fear having to go outside and possibly step into a spider web. They aren't being small minded, they have an uncontrollable irrational fear.
With the true homophobes, it's not the "difference" that they fear. The fear typically boils down to one of two things (which indicates the cause of the phobia) and that is 1. fear of gays seducing and "inducting" them. 2. Fear of gays out to "get" them, such as rape, or date rape scenario.
if you fear the "induction" element, it normally suggests that you have homosexual tenancies and you haven't learn to come to grips with it, and fear people may provoke that deeply burried secret you've burried into your subconscious.
If you fear them "getting" you, it is normally the result of being sexually abused, the fear that some one of the same sex will molest or rape you.
Even with the fear of induction, there is typically sexual abuse involved in that as well.
My cousin, who had legitimate homophobia, it was eventually discovered what set him off. When he was little (and the funny thing is I was there and remember it) he was told by his mother that he couldn't go outside when it got dark because there was a child molester on the lose. At his age, he didn't know what rape and molestation was. When it was explained to him, it "shocked" him that such a thing could exist. Because this child molester hiding from the police was never caught, and he heard stories of the molester sneaking into peoples homes etc, he became very afraid he was going to get molested by this guy. This went on all summer long frightening him. And the more he spent nights looking out the window, trying to fall asleep, being afraid of every movement he seen, the more this sank into his head and produced a trauma. As the years went by, he had forgotten about this. But that fear of being molested/raped was still in him. He had no fear of girls because, girls couldn't really over power and rape him. And if she was a hot girl, it wouldn't be rape, it would be "having a good time". The only way rape could occur is if a male did it.
Add on top of that the gay rights movement in full swing during the late 90's and early 2000's, and he got the message in his head that sooo many people were gay.
So now fear of being raped, and the knowledge that half the people he hangs out with might be gay, created this fear that some of the guys he was friends with were secretly gay, attracted to him, and would rape him if he passed out drunk, or was all alone with them. And of course this evolved into the assumption that if a guy put his hand on his shoulder, he was "copping a feel". If a guy wanted to sit close to him "he was trying to get close to me, the way I like to get close to a pretty girl, oh no!" and that sort of thing.
He wasn't a typical bigot, it was a phobia he couldn't control. And if a man sat next to him, real close, playing a video game with him or something, my cousin would get nervous, like anxiety creeping in, and he would try to move away.
He hated having to change at school at gym class.
It's so hard to believe this all started that night, way back in the late 80's when me and him were gonna go catch frogs by the pond, and his mother said we can't be out because it's getting dark and there is a child molester on the loose.

So yeah, I get the part where it might be insensitive to make fun of them. Though that never stopped me and my other cousin from teasing him about it.
He was sitting on the couch with his girlfriend Jill on one side and me on the other. she is scratching his back while we watch tv. I look at Jill, put my hand on his back and start scratching his back in a seductive flirty way. She smiles and pulls her hand away so I can take over. A few seconds later he says "mmm, Jill that feels good" I say in a gay/feminine voice "thank you baby".
He looks at me like "what". and then he notices it's my hand. He jumps up and starts screaming and runs across the room. His face blood red, he begins a tirade of profanity and accusations of me being a queer. And me, his girlfriend, older brother, and girlfriend's mother, are all laughing hysterically. he got angry and drove away for an hour.

So yeah, teasing someone with homophobia can be fun, if you are a cruel bastard, and I am a cruel bastard.


nightwind1 said:
RB_Kandy said:
It has been my experience that any time a political agenda is pushed too hard it feels preachy and the show, the movie, the cartoon, the musical band, the video game, or whatever medium it's in, feels perverted like a manipulative PSA. If your primary goal is to push an agenda, you become that annoying preacher guy that wants to tell you how wrong you are, and change your ways, and everyone think like me or you're bad.

I really hate politics and social causes getting pushed in mediums.
You mean like:

Errand of Mercy?
The City On The Edge Of Forever?
A Private Little War?
Bread and Circuses?
A Taste of Armageddon?
Let That Be Your Last Battlefield?
The Omega Glory?
Patterns of Force?
STVI: The Undiscovered Country?
City On The Edge Of Forever, was political how?

Let That Be Your Last Battlefield: Assuming that was the TOS episode where there were two people half white and half black, but depending on what side the white was on made you the master race or the inferior; Yes I did cringe at that episode, it reminds me of the scene on Beevis and Butthead where the hippie teacher makes a brief cartoon about a purple person and a green person who stab each other to find that they both bleed the same color, and they are so sorry that they ever hated the other. To the credit of that episode, at least it did mix it up a bit by making racism/hate a two way street. One was persecuting because he believed his people to be superior. The other was equally annoying because he whined incessantly about being persecuted to the point of him having a persecution complex.

Errand of Mercy, was about a group of really powerful beings who acted as passively when the greatly inferior kilingons showed up to take over. Kirk wanted to help these people, but these people were passivists, who could take care of themselves if ever needed.
I don't recall PSA's on that subject.

The Undiscovered Country: yes, the entire premise of giant probe that will destroy earth if whales don't respond, was a stupid premise, and the entire thing did feel like a cheesy Captain Planet environmental message.

I am aware the Star Trek is famous for being "morality plays set in the future", but it never bothers me until I am hit over the head with a current political hot topic that schools and PSA's bombard you with on a daily basis.

As for those other episodes you mentioned, I don't off hand know which ones they are.

T'Girl said:
You don't think that depicting a future were there are no gays to be seen isn't an attempt to advance a "socio-political idea"
First of all, the absence of clearly making a fuss about gays, isn't the same as flat out saying "there are no gays in the future."
Not showing gay people, or announcing gay people, isn't necessarily a political agenda.
Though I am wondering how many people hold this mentality: if you're not openly portraying gays and doing so in a positive light, it's because you're homophobic.

Saito S said:
If the guy happens to just be straight, and it has no bearing on his personality, then what's the point of making him straight?
Straight is the norm, it is the default. You don't write a character with heterosexuality in mind any more than you write him to be right handed. We automatically assume a man is straight, right handed, and has two testicles. If he is 30 years old, we assume him to have a full head of hair and all of his teeth, simply because all of these things are normal.
So no one is written as "straight" so much as they are simply not written as gay.

I also want to point out all this talk about "gays make up 10% of the population, one in ten!" that's nonsense, this is based on a 60 year old report that has been debunked I think 35 years ago.
Gay's make up 1.4% to 2% in America. http://www.usatoday.com/news/opinion/forum/2011-05-23-Sex-survey-revelations-on-gay-identity_n.htm

Now when you add bisexuals into that category, and the polling includes teen girls, now you get high numbers like the 6%-8%
But once you poll women who are 35 and older, and have long since out grown being 15 years old who kisses her best friend on the lips and then goes and screams "I am bisexual and proud and you better not have a problem with that you homophobes", once they've long outgrown that, 0.7% are gay, and 1.1% are bisexual (0.7% to 1.1% is also from the last link I just posted, the idea that teen girls are psuedo-bi for attention is my own conclusion to justify the statistical difference)
Again, when polls focus on people in America who are over the age 30, these polls seldom show anything approaching 2%
And the amount of homosexuality in America is high compared to most other countries.


So for all the people who say "we should have gay couples kissing in the back ground every other scene" why? Unless it is deliberately done to push a political agenda, there is no need to have men kissing men in the background.

In my 35 years of life, I can honestly say I have never seen two men kissing each other in real life. I have seen it on TV and the internet, but never in real life. To be fair, in Kenwood, Baltimore, Maryland,which is this state's own little Castro district, I have seen, and worked with, gay men. But I never seen them kiss their lover in public.
I have seen lots of high school and college girls kissing at parties, but that's it.
I've seen interracial couples kissing and lots of hand holding, but not gays.

So if I seen men kissing in the background of a Star Trek movie/show, I would feel that is greatly out of place, simply because I've never seen it even once. I live in Maryland, and have spent 1/3rd of my life in South Carolina. I have only visited for a few days or a week New York, West Virginia, Pennsylvania, Delaware.
Perhaps if I lived half my life in California, my experiences would be different.

So basically, the argument that Star Trek should at least show an accurate amount of homosexuals (and a few people here have made that argument) all I can say is sure, when there are a hundred people kissing in the background, one couple kissing would be a statistical average. I don't think I have seen 50 different couples kissing in all of Star Trek.

So people who want to see a lot of male on male couples and hand holding and kissing in the background, you are either greatly mislead to how many gays there are, or you want to amp up the amount of homosexuality there is to push an agenda (which goes back to my statement "to hell with the realism or entertainment value I just want my agenda pushed").

Saito S said:
Stuff is just THERE, because it's THERE. LOTS AND LOTS of stuff you see in a Star Trek ep falls into this category. This is a phenomonon that has been happening for decades. It's there because, while walking around the ship having a conversation that advances the plot, Picard might just walk by some of those random crewmembers or furniture or potted plants. They are simply part of the world.
You're right, lots of objects are placed on the set for atmosphere and realism. In someone's quarters will be a bed, and on that bed a pillow. And in a huge public building such as a mall there might be a potted plant. In the mess hall there would be tables and chairs.
It would be out of place if Picard walked past a potted plant in the halls, or there was a bed on the bridge. If something's out of place it's an eye sore. If Picard happens to keep walking past a few gay couples every episode, it would be out of place.
First of all, how many times do you see couples holding hands, or kissing in Star Trek? To be honest, not that much, and if more than 2% of the background hand holding is gay, than it's statistically inflated, and thus not accurate.

Because this post is too long, I actually have to split the post and continue this.

To Be Continued...
 
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Saito S said:
And no, having aliens that are homosexual is not the same as having some of the human character being homosexual. It's certainly not at all BAD, and can be interesting from the standpoint of exploring said alien culture, but the issue is how homosexuality for humans is depicted in this show about humanity's future, about showing that in said future, our race has finally gotten over this incredibly outdated, worthless idea that being homosexual should be viewed as anything other than perfectly normal, perfectly healthy, and perfectly acceptable. Thus, the inclusion of gay characters who are human is important.
I agree completely. If you have asexual hermaphrodite aliens and the like, it might make for an interesting biological discrepancy to define the alien and add to the "alien" experience, but it does nothing to support the LGBT.
And what you and others are wanting is to push LGBT, "Trek and entertainment be damned, I want to push my politics" is what I said (paraphrased) in an earlier post in this thread. And someone asked "who's saying that?" well the answer is you are Saito.

I don't want to oppress gays or promote them, I don't care about gays. I care about gays like I care about trains and tie dye t-shirts. I'm not against it, and I'm not for it, I just don't care.
You say "in said future, our race has finally gotten over this incredibly outdated, worthless idea that being homosexual should be viewed as anything other than perfectly normal, perfectly healthy, and perfectly acceptable."
The problem I have with this statement is you act as if this is a universal truth like water is wet, fire burns, gravity gives an object weight. You act as if it is a testable and undeniable truth rather than just a current theory held by the slight majority. You say it's perfectly normal. Normal is an ambiguous term, at it's base it means majority, occurs often, expected, within parameters. Being left handed is abnormal, because it occurs in only 7% - 10% of the population. It isn't evil or bad, it just isn't normal. Neither is being gay which occurs even less than being left handed.

If you mean "mentally healthy" well it was only in 1973 that it got dropped from psychologies holy book the DSM. And that was due to political pressures, and not based on new evidence, or a new psychology paradigm. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diagnostic_and_Statistical_Manual_of_Mental_Disorders Scroll down to "Seventh printing of the DSM-II, 1974"

As far as "perfectly acceptable" If it were perfectly acceptable, than it would be accepted by everyone, and you wouldn't need to push it. What you are saying is you "want" it to be perfectly acceptable, rather than "you're an idiot for not accepting that it already is perfectly acceptable".
We also make assumptions like "they were born that way". I hear so many times a christian bible thumper bitching about homosexuality, and some liberal retorts "everyone knows gay's don't have a choice, they were born that way."
Well I doubt any sexual preference or fetish is a conscious choice, but I am highly skeptical on people born with a fetish or a sexual preference. I think it can be easily argued that for some people it is the result of abuse or trauma (I said some people). People who go to prison and are raped frequently, in a culture that says "a man puts it in you, a fagot has a man put it in him" enough years of that psychological trauma can mess people up, and they have went to prison straight, came out gay or bi.
To what extent is any mental illness or state of mind nature or nurture, is an on going debate, and therefore to say "they were born that way" as if this were an undeniable scientifically proven fact, is ignorance.
Furthermore, there are evolutionary reasons why I don't think homosexuality would be a natural genetic outcome. A characteristic, either physical, or neurological, is the result of what works. "Works" meaning what will produce the highest abundance of healthy offspring. Two men or two women can produce no offspring. So if evolution is true, this characteristic should have been weeded out of the gene pool, or more accurately never been in our gene pool to begin with. I am willing to believe that "some" people are born gay, but the percentage would have to be on par with Siamese twins, being born blind, being born deaf, being born with two sexual organs, or being born with any abnormality that would render the chance of finding a mate and reproducing, virtually non-existent.

I don't personally care if homosexuality is a choice or not. If it were a choice, and you chose to be gay, what's wrong with that? Is it really any different whether you were "born" gay or whether you "chose" to be gay? I don't personally think so, so it shouldn't matter or have impact on social acceptance.

I feel the need to re-iterate the point that I am not claiming I believe homosexuality is a mental illness, or the result of abuse. Though I do stand by my belief that it is way too common to be explained by genetic chance). I am merely stating that these things are open to debate, thus wanting a mainstream entertainment industry to push only your side of the debate as fact, is deceptive propaganda, and anyone who screams "homophobe" during these details, is coping out due to lack of debating skills. healthy, normal, acceptable, is not a fact, it's your own political theory and agenda.

And you have basically confessed an earlier point I made, that for some people, the idea of a gay character has nothing to do with the marketability, or the entertainment value, of a franchise, but with pushing a political agenda.

I am not here to push a political agenda, my objection to a gay character is not routed in a political or spiritual belief system, it is based on what I perceive to be marketable and entertaining. If there is a new trek, and it does have a gay character, and that gay character is entertaining, than that's great. But before I see it, and I am asked "should we put a gay in there?" my default answer is "no, I don't think a gay would add anything to writing, or the ratings, or the character cast dynamic."

Now someone talked about Travis on Enterprise could have been made a gay character. I agree. After they had nothing for him, gave him no development, and pushed him so far in to the background, yes, Travis could have come out of the closet and be gay, and I honestly feel that would revitalize the character, give him a fresh start.
I recall an episode where it was Malcolm Reed's birthday, and Hoshi wanted to get him the perfect birthday present. But the problem was he was such a secretive guy, no one knew anything about him. I tell you, I had this strange feeling that when they were digging through his files and his life, at the end they were going to find out he was gay somehow. I just had that feeling. Although that never came to fruition. So I think Travis and Malcolm should have paired up and been gay. Considering how little these characters got used, it would have made them more entertaining.

Or what about Malcolm and that paramilitary leader, I forget what that squad was called, but they were the military guys on enterprise during the Xindi plot, and Malcolm and the leader of the team hated each other, and then started fist fighting. You know, if that were a male and female, all that hatred would have been called "pent up sexual frustration" and they would have fought and then started kissing. You know if that had been a guy and girl, you know that's how it would have ended. Well, it still should have ended that way. That would have blown my mind LOL.

So yes, a gay character "could" work, it could be interesting. And if Star Trek ever was a pioneer of civil rights (which aside from Roddenberry's wife as Number One, on the TOS pilot, and having a black woman on the bridge) is debatable. Beyond Number One, and Uhura, I don't see a ton of civil rights advocacy from Trek. Sure it's there, but I think the fans amplify through perception just how much it's there. If indeed Star Trek is a champion of civil rights, they totally dropped the ball on Enterprise. It would have been understandable to "try" to make an appealing gay character in 2001. I think by 2012, "trying" to make an appealing gay character is just jumping on the band wagon, lacks shock value, and is almost certainly going to be the focus of the LGBT hatred. After all, one stereotype and LGBT screams about the stereotype. Lack certain stereotypes and LGBT will scream about the portrayal of gays. There is no satisfying the LGBT, and therefore my advice is to not try to satisfy them, just ignore them, and make an entertaining show.


Maurice said:
Mars said:
You want to check the box for homosexual, fine, what's next do you suppose? Its not really science fiction and it doesn't add to the plot, most viewers would tolerate it out of politeness, because the writer wanted to include a homosexual in the 24th century, no one wants to be called a homophobe after all.
Change "homosexual" to "black" and maybe you'll see the point, but I doubt it. The double-standard is staring back at you from the mirror. Enjoy the view, ugly as it is.

Nope, already covered that. In fact, the black token, is what launched my fear of the gay token.
There is nothing wrong with a character being played by a black actor, but when you deliberately stick a black person in there to fill a quota, or push diversity, you create a token.
Also, there is a huge difference between a gay character and a black, Hispanic, or female character. Race and sex is what you are, gay is what you do.

If you write a character, and a black person auditions, and you hire him, your character, who was never written with race in mind, is now a black character because he is played by a black actor.

If you hire a gay person to play the character, the character doesn't become gay. Takei was gay, but the character Sulu was not.

So you don't have to "write" a black character, all you really have to do is write a character and hire a black person. It's when you do write the character as black, you've either created an obnoxious and offensive stereotype, or pointless token.
My advice to Hollywood "stop writing black characters, and start hiring more black actors"

But when you write a gay character, the character has to be written gay. i.e he must be flamboyant and prance around like a sissy, listen to lady gaga, gossip about fashion, and shout faaaabulous. That's "acting" gay. That's a gay character. Or he must make out with a man, or just offhandedly mention his boyfriend, husband, he's gay, in order for the audience to know that he is gay.
If a character never makes out with a member of the same sex, never mentions they're gay, and doesn't lisp and prance around, how would you ever know he was a gay character? You wouldn't.
Again, race and sex are what you are, gay is what you do.
So for all you LGBT's out there, just look at all the Star Trek extras that aren't with a member of the opposite sex, hey, they might be gay.

Again, the token aspect, if you write a gay character, you have to write him as gay, why write a gay character if you're not trying to please the LGBT? Don't please the LGBT's or any other loud obnoxious vocal political minority, just write an entertaining show. It's too late to be shocking, risky, or champion a social cause for the gays, it's 2012, the time to have done it for those reasons would have been the Enterprise series.

Although, as with my example of Travis and Malcolm, I think making characters, with no development, suddenly gay, or suddenly realize their homosexuality, could actually revitalize an otherwise stale, and boring character with no development. This would actually be the ideal scenario to create a gay character. After all, if the character is slowly becoming an extra, and has no purpose, it sure as hell can't hurt the character, and could be a way to develop him.

Now if they had made T'Pol and Hoshi gay lovers, that would have pissed me off. Because it would have been capitalizing on the girl on girl phenomenon that permeated Hollywood alongside rough tough women who smack men around when they get out of line. It would have been one more Hollywood cliché rubbed in our face. And the other reason it would bother me is it would be an attempt to appeal to the lowest common denominator and attract viewers with hot steamy lesbian scenes.
Look, a year after Sara Michelle Gellar did the girl on girl kiss in Cruel Intentions, girl on girl action was a cliché to the point of that kiss scene being parodied a dozen times.
I cringe every time I see the steamy scene with Trip and T'Pol rubbing disinfectant oil all over their bodies, with closeups that made it look like a scene out of a Cinimax movie. The first time I seen that I thought "oh god, they're so desperate for viewers they are trying to get the Baywatch audience to tune in."
So in some characters, making them gay could have worked, in other characters it would have made it so much worse.

T'Girl said:
Here's a question for you Mars. A lesbian couple is at their doctor's office because one of them is pregnant, much to their combined horror the child's brain structure indicate that he/she is heterosexual. Do you think the couple should seek to "adjust" the child sexuality to emulate their own homosexuality?

Fair is fair, right?

How would they have gotten pregnant to begin with?

beamme said:
Homosexuality is all about confused sexual identity?

You really aren't all that bright, are you?
Actually, Gender Identity Disorder (GID) is strongly linked with Homosexuality and visa versa. In spite of the fact that Homosexuality got politically muscled out of the DSM in 1973, it often pops up as contributing factor, or association, with many other identity, gender, dissociative, compulsory, disorders.
Here's a link on GID http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_identity_disorder
So it is reasonable to assume that a lot of people who are homosexual are only that way as a result of a knee jerk reaction to not liking the responsibility or restrictions of their gender role, and homosexuality being a manifestation of this. This would apply to some, but not all cases of homosexuality and transgenderism.

Mars said:
Well what would you do if you had the opportunity to change your body from male to female, that way you could be attracted to males and have the right "equipment" to match your "software". I notice your picture is that of a woman, what if you could be her? I guess what I'm saying is what if in the 24th century is was possible to match sexual orientation to one's gender? if such was the case, there would be a very good reason why there were no homosexual characters, as they all altered their bodies to match their minds.
Did you miss her post about the fact that most Lesbians don't actually want to be male, and most gays don't actually want to be female?
I think a future where an adult can choose to have a new body assigned to them, by choice, would be pretty cool. After all, some people want to be a different sex. Though it is unfair to force this on them. Of course the greater advantage would be immortality, just keep switching bodies before you die LOL

Guy Gardener said:
There's a difference between aspergers and being offensively homophobic.
Oh come on, that's not fair, he is not being offensively homophobic, he is discussing the rationality of a gay Star Trek character, and on certain aspects of homosexuality, he has a difficult time understanding because he has a difficult time relating to things far removed from him.
He hasn't said anything like you're all going to burn in hell, you are disgusting freaks, you should be beaten, hurt, imprisoned, etc.
He hasn't said anything deliberately hurtful to anyone here.

Maurice said:
Right there is the issue. You see it as a "problem" that needs fixing, rather than just accepting that it's just one of the many ways sexual desire manifests itself in the species (and not just ours).

That, sir, is a beautiful statement.
I remember being a youngster and hearing people talk about homosexuality as if it were a defect, and gays were suffering this "disease". And I remember thinking "but what if the gays don't mind being the way they are?"
There seemed to always be that assumption that gay people were somehow "broken". You'd be surprised how many people can't wrap their heads around the concept that most homosexuals don't view themselves as "broken" or "defective" and are perfectly content with the way they are, and simply wish the people around them would get over it and be happy with them being the way they are.

And wholly crap, Maurice, you're a bastard! I am actually beginning to see how important it might be to a gay person to have their choice/lifestyle/sexuality, be promoted as something "acceptable" and I now understand a little better the demand for a gay character.

Maurice, you bastard, you've made this Grinche's heart grow 5 sizes today.

Fine. I am in favor of a gay character in the new Star Trek series. But he better be a real character, a great actor, and not just some token to please the LGBT.
 
Lots it has to do with people with confused sexual identity which is what Homosexuality is all about.
No offense, but seriously, WTF?!?!?!?

I am a thirty year old white male who likes and enjoys intimate emotional and physical relationships with other males. Nothing about that is "confused sexual identity", it is what homosexuality is all about--love, sex, connection, intimacy with someone of the same sex, exactly the same as heterosexual couples. The only difference is that both partners have the same junk to ulitise down below.

Whatever applies to a straight couple also applies to gay one, which (by the time of Trek) will include same sex marriage, adoption, and everything else that a lifetime devoted to another person entails.

Well what would you do if you had the opportunity to change your body from male to female, that way you could be attracted to males and have the right "equipment" to match your "software". I notice your picture is that of a woman, what if you could be her? I guess what I'm saying is what if in the 24th century is was possible to match sexual orientation to one's gender? if such was the case, there would be a very good reason why there were no homosexual characters, as they all altered their bodies to match their minds.
Mars did you not read my post? I am a man who likes men. I'm not into drag queens, transvestites, transexuals or women. I am happy with the body I am in now (though could afford to drop a couple pounds but thats beside the point) and I know what kind of man I am attracted to. I wouldn't want to change anything about that, nor would a huge majority of gay man or woman.

So by this reasoning should all bisexual people want to swap bodies with a hermaphrodite?

As for my previous avatar, that was the very lovely Alyson Hannigan who "plays" a character in my fanfic. I admit she is an attractive woman, a great actress and seems like an all round nice person, she is still a woman, so therefore of no interest to me, either to swap bodies with or sleep with.
 
Maurice said:
Right there is the issue. You see it as a "problem" that needs fixing, rather than just accepting that it's just one of the many ways sexual desire manifests itself in the species (and not just ours).

That, sir, is a beautiful statement....

And wholly crap, Maurice, you're a bastard! I am actually beginning to see how important it might be to a gay person to have their choice/lifestyle/sexuality, be promoted as something "acceptable" and I now understand a little better the demand for a gay character.

Maurice, you bastard, you've made this Grinche's heart grow 5 sizes today.
My point all along has been that I'd prefer Star Trek and other shows to reflect the breadth of humanity that exists. Other shows do it and don't make a big deal about it. Star Trek can and should do the same, just as showed the diversity it did in the 60s.
 
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