I don't. I've seen enough of it to piss me off for the rest of my life. "Trudging through" is no longer acceptable to me and treating trauma with a shrug and "that's life" just misses the mark. Not saying everyone needs to be stuck in managing trauma, but the "suck it up and deal with it" line is not something I find valuable. I prefer classic Stocism to imagined stoicism.
I'm not saying it's healthy, but it's relatable to many, along with an understandable and relatable character flaw.
Lots of people who deal with trauma (like soldiers in wartime) develop a dark, sarcastic, droll sense of humor. Frankly reading wartime stories leavened with gallows humor is a lot better than heart-to-hearts, because it provides the widest dramatic range.