To Sophie74656,
I sincerely sympathize with you! What a jerk!

I hope that since this unfortunate experience, you can smile again!
Concerning "infernal trio" or threesome (

), it would be upsetting and unfair to see Seven being suddenly suspicious of Kathryn Janeway's intentions after all the latter has done for her, since joining Voyager, and all that because of a male presence (aka Chakotay)!

. Besides, I sitll don't understand why Seven didn't informed Janeway about her dating with Chakotay, not necessary when she has began but
by the 3rd or 4 date, it might have been time to inform her?!
You know what really annoyed me in Seven/Chakotay's pairing? 1) they didn't match in my opinion and 2) this "association" formed of regression in the personality of these two characters too:
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Seven who was known as a strong personality (knowing what she wanted and ready to put the means at her disposal to achieve her goal, even if she incurred the wrath of the crew; putting people in their place regardless of their sensitivity; shockingly honest, arrogant, curious at point to interfere in all aspects of the private lives of people - in a research goal - but, hidding a devastating humor and a great sensitivity, which made her moving and friendly, became suddenly quite the opposite. Worst, while she was so independent and sometimes, extreme, she became a submissive woman under the pen of any macho scriptwriter and why in the end? To give to Chakotay an occasion to leading the story (oh yes, failing to shine by his heroism in last seasons, show him as a perfect suitor for the Ice Queen ... who can only melt before many deployed charm!

).
.....- Although his forced celibacy seems to end (even if it's not with the woman
many wanted!

),
Chakotay's behavior towards Seven as Kathryn left me an unpleasant feeling. Indeed, as I said in another post, the character gave me the impression of arriving after the battle (fight he refused to deliver, btw - or even pay his mite -, leaving mainly Janeway and the Doctor do all the job), then coming appreciate, enjoy and take advantage of the result, once the project was completed* -> as a reminder, Chakotay, early thought that Tom Paris and later, Seven, were Janeway's personal project!
(a lot of fan fictions - on J/C, J/7 and even C/7 ... although in the end, he ended up being sincere in his feelings for her -, sadly confirmed this impression)
And about Endgame, I found Chakotay's attitude towards Janeway particularly improper! She wasn't only his superior although up to consider him as her equal (despite his past in the Maquis), but his best friend too (even if he wished more for a moment!), going up to answer questions about private matters (sometimes, with an inappropriate insistence), but when it came to him, he played the secretive, while the one he courted was none other than Janeway's protégée - what was to punish her to have definitively rejected him? -, Seven, who was incidentally, a young woman (maybe she looked liked a woman between 25-30 yo but her emotional maturity was the one of a child or at less, a young teenage girl), who was still in search of her humanity - even though she had already taken a big step in the right direction -, so even maybe, with some emotional fragility making her out of control (and we saw how bad she reacted so, it wasn't unlikely!) and so, a potential risk for the safety of Voyager vessel and the crew. Despite all that, Chakotay seemed to put his libido before his duties of moral and material support to his Captain & dear friend, while the latter seemed really need support see comfort and that, wasn't ok for me! He could and should wait to court Seven and
especially not to make her promises that he wasn't sure to hold, like being present at her side, once on Earth!
Don't get me wrong, and contrary to what some might think, I do not hate neither had any problem with Chakotay's character. Yes, he has never been one of my favorites right from Caretaker (while I loved Janeway, Tuvok, Tom, Kes and Neelix , at first sight) but he had certain qualities that I appreciate, like some form of moral uprightness, (even ifsometimes, his fidelity to some moral principles and fights generated variable geometry), a quiet strength that could comfort (even if some of his reactions/decisions were taken under the influence of emotion, what suggested a dark side), his investment in certain causes and people he
really cared (with the risk of mixes of too much attention or not enough and even, not at all). But between what I called the J/7's mess AND some unpleasant attitudes (Janeway had too!) in episodes of previous seasons, didn't make Chakotay's character grow in my liking (I think that RB's behavior on and out sets, has not improved things). That why, thinking to a possible J/C ending really bothered me, even if I understand the fandom (they are attractive, passionate, brillant, care for their people, etc...but I learnt that those who look alike, do not always end together, as frustrating as it sounds!
