I feel like I keep saying the same thing over and over again, but this episode is like good idea, somewhat flawed presentation.
Our Town is an okay framing, especially with what they wanted to show with the Doctor, but it's really used in a way that doesn't feel like it's perfectly there. It's like taking the Cliff Notes (or I guess ChatGPT summary) of the play and shoehorning in the themes of being invested in the moments of life onto the idea of the episode rather than it feeling organic.
I get that SAM is the full of life character, but I don't get why she would connect with Our Town specifically. Even if we stuck to English language plays in the American canon that I guess are in the public domain so CBS didn't have to buy any rights, there so many options. It's like the writers made her pick the play because they wanted to write around it.
Earlier in the season I had questions about SAM and hoped they'd explain her weird background and I'm glad they did see my questions coming in their season planning. I'm mostly satisfied, but I don't get why they'd choose this specific age and time of life for her either. Maybe the Kasqians don't have a concept of childhood so they didn't bother... fine. But why arbitrarily pick 17? Why have her join the Academy other than the show is called Starfleet Academy and not Starfleet Diplomacy or whatever. Or why not have her live as an actual child and grow up among organics to see if organics would mistreat her?
Like at least the gap in her knowledge was so they could do a Doctor episode, so I get that... but I'm still not really satisfied with why they chose to send her off into the world like this in the first place. They said they spend 200 years designing her... but I would have liked to see what came out of that time.
The Academy side of things was... just fine I guess. There isn't enough time for any of this to be traumatic, especially since I as an audience member don't care about a random character dying so I'm not sure why the students care other than that's what is expected to happen to the characters. You would have thought that first episode with being invaded and almost dying would have been more traumatic, but they gloss over all that like nothing happened.
And that just makes it worse in terms of Tarima and her trauma which I really don't understand. Perhaps I'm dense but it's not like Picard being assimilated or Nog losing her leg, at least not to me as a simple audience member, so it's hard to connect with her going through her prescribed drunken rebellious phase before she "gets over it" and learns her lesson from reading Our Town. I don't even know why she couldn't just visit her War College friends because they literally share the same campus. Is this Harry Potter rules where schools are not allowed to ever mix on penalty of death? (I've never watched Harry Potter but I assume that's how it works).
What makes it worse is that the episode is an hour long, so it's not even a matter of not having enough time to flesh things out. It's just that the characters just feel like going through the motions, so it really does feel like I'm watching a table read of a script rather than being immersed in a TV show.
Like most of the episodes, I don't necessarily dislike this one but it's hard to like it as well. Even the revelation about the Doctor is fine, but then they just montage away meet of the story with lines from Our Town... while we spend 5 minutes watching drunk Tarima deal with Caleb. I dunno... I feel like if they just made it a one hour SAM episode with Tarima as the b story, maybe it would have been better. But we'll never know.
Some pointless thoughts:
I still don't understand how students can just show up for a class and have no idea what it is. Apparently the class also just ends arbitrarily and I guess Tilly will give them an A? Yes I know the class isn't the point and this was to trick them into therapy or whatever, but how does that actually work within the context of running a school?
Like I said before, sometimes this feels like a college, other times it feels like a high school where everyone takes the same class and can have Breakfast Club-like adventures together. Yes, I should just stop trying to figure out how the school actually works.
Oh during one of the "classes" there was an extra no-name student sitting in the back. Why was she there at all? Did she get roped into trauma class because no one would talk to her or remember her name?
I know this Doctor episode is probably one of the more famous ones, but I won't forget the time that the Doctor took over Seven's body and started drinking and getting horny.

I'm assuming no one will do a follow up on that any time soon.
I'm going to assume that the people who are wearing uniforms without the red/gold/blue are undeclared majors, but I still don't know what that means... but also it doesn't seem important.
Anyway, I feel like the show is just on the cusp of being enjoyable for me but it can't quite get there. It's just missing something that would elevate it for me.