I think "They messed up continuity!" is another way of saying "I don't like it!" I can prove it too, because I've been on both sides of the fence. So I'm someone who actually knows how both sides think.
In 2001, I didn't like ENT and I made a big deal about how much it looked like Berman Trek and how little it looked like TOS. Even though intellectually I knew ENT couldn't look like series from the '60s and that there was more than 100 years in-continuity for the look of ENT to sync up with the look of TOS. There was plenty of room to work with. Didn't matter. I still took issue with it.
In 2017, all of a sudden that went completely out the window. I loved DSC. I thought it was the best Star Trek since DS9 ended. Period. And then how much I liked the series grew even more from there. It was 10 years before TOS. No room to work with at all for visual continuity. So I said, "It's a visual reboot!" and moved on. I was too busy enjoying the show.
If you like something, you'll look the other way. If you don't, you won't.