I'd be more inclined to believe we're lightheartedly mocking the failings of a franchise we love or a series we otherwise enjoy if the incessant, acerbic bashing of every little detail imaginable didn't constitute almost all of the discussion about it.
I agree with everything you wrote so much.
This makes discussion about the show feel impossible. It isn’t about being unable to deal with disagreement, or criticism. I welcome criticism of the entertainment I enjoy, and differing opinions can often lead to the best conversations, but pretending that Discovery is uniquely guilty of logical inconsistencies or deviations from established canon isn’t a matter of opinion, it’s demonstrably patently false, and not worth entertaining in
every single discussion about
every episode. That’s not earnest criticism, or joking complaints, it’s just hate dressed up as such.
I believe that people have always hated on things, that some of the first fans hated TAS, the films, and TNG, and I remember seeing people who loved it all to that point resisting DS9 when it came out. And I saw a lot of disdain for Enterprise when it came out, so I’m sure a lot of that hate given to other shows wasn’t that different from the hate Discovery gets now, but it doesn’t make it a good thing, or an unavoidable fact of life.
And presently they aren’t hated on like they were then, or like Discovery is now. The films, TNG, DS9, and even the initially highly controversial/fan-protested/disavowed for a time by Gene Roddenberry TAS, are now regarded as parts of Star Trek, all the same. They’re part of Trek, after their initial reactions ranged from casual dismissal to contempt. That should be a reason not to dismiss Discovery as objectively poor, or “not
real Trek”, simply because it’s new, or not to one’s personal liking, because it’s a already a well-loved part of Trek for many now, and just like those other additions to the franchise, it will only be more accepted as time goes on.