That is an excellent question.Then why bother with the expectation? If nothing matters, then nothing matters. It’s one thing when fans lose their shit over something but it’s another to be displeased by it. Divorcing yourself from reality no great goal.
All I want is consistency is what doesn't work for people. If it didn't work in DSC then it should not work in other Treks is my attitude. By extension, we should not be surprised when Star Trek utilizes familiar tropes, especially when there are demands for Trek to be more familiar.