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Your Girlfriend Was In A Porno Movie!

Yeah, I'm a man who likes his porn, but the stuff that is blatantly degrading to women, I don't go for. If it doesn't seem like all parties involved are at least enjoying themselves, it does nothing for me.

This is probably why most mainstream porn doesn't appeal to me, since it's so artificial and fake. You can always tell the ones who enjoy their work, though.
 
Pornography is not supposed to be tasteful or artistic it is supposed to be sexually arousing. If more people realized that we wouldn't waste all this time and money with endless legal wrangling. Even in a marriage when you have sex with your spouse do you want it to be tasteful and artistic or hot and dirty? Sex is dirty,

I disagree. Perhaps your youth and inexperience are showing ;)

that's what makes it fun. Porn is supposed to mirror sex, but take it to an exaggerated level. Nothing is unsexier than "tasteful porn"
Mirror? Holy hell, I've never boned an office worker at work, the delivery girl, or the like. I've also never known a woman who wears high heels during intercourse, wants to be slapped, or be told she's a slut/whore.

Exaggerated? That's the understatement of the century.
 
Pornography is not supposed to be tasteful or artistic it is supposed to be sexually arousing. If more people realized that we wouldn't waste all this time and money with endless legal wrangling. Even in a marriage when you have sex with your spouse do you want it to be tasteful and artistic or hot and dirty? Sex is dirty,

I disagree. Perhaps your youth and inexperience are showing ;)

Well at least something about me is young then, because the rest sure ain't.

that's what makes it fun. Porn is supposed to mirror sex, but take it to an exaggerated level. Nothing is unsexier than "tasteful porn"
Mirror? Holy hell, I've never boned an office worker at work, the delivery girl, or the like. I've also never known a woman who wears high heels during intercourse, wants to be slapped, or be told she's a slut/whore.

Exaggerated? That's the understatement of the century.

Well the mirror part is the physical sex. The exxageration part is that most women will actually want to have sex with you at the drop of a hat. You've never had a girl tell you to call her a slut? Now I think your inexperience is showing.;)
 
I've also never known a woman who wears high heels during intercourse, wants to be slapped, or be told she's a slut/whore.

I've personally known at least 3 that have done all those things you describe here and even more maybe I should not mention here.
You might be surprised at what men and women do or find sexual. "Regular" people can often put porn to shame.

Mirror? Holy hell, I've never boned an office worker at work, the delivery girl, or the like.

Neither have I, but that didn't stop an old boss of mine getting caught boning one of the sales girls after hours when they thought everyone had left.
 
I've also never known a woman who wears high heels during intercourse, wants to be slapped, or be told she's a slut/whore.

I've personally known at least 3 that have done all those things you describe here and even more maybe I should not mention here.
You might be surprised at what men and women do or find sexual. "Regular" people can often put porn to shame.

Mirror? Holy hell, I've never boned an office worker at work, the delivery girl, or the like.

Neither have I, but that didn't stop an old boss of mine getting caught boning one of the sales girls after hours when they thought everyone had left.


I dunno. Most people are circus freaks. I wouldn't consider many of the above actions you mention as being those of "normal" people.

I'm not the "lights out, missionary only" school of thought, but seriously, 90+% of the stuff in porn is plain circus freak stuff.
 
I've also never known a woman who wears high heels during intercourse, wants to be slapped, or be told she's a slut/whore.

I've personally known at least 3 that have done all those things you describe here and even more maybe I should not mention here.
You might be surprised at what men and women do or find sexual. "Regular" people can often put porn to shame.

Mirror? Holy hell, I've never boned an office worker at work, the delivery girl, or the like.

Neither have I, but that didn't stop an old boss of mine getting caught boning one of the sales girls after hours when they thought everyone had left.


I dunno. Most people are circus freaks. I wouldn't consider many of the above actions you mention as being those of "normal" people.

I'm not the "lights out, missionary only" school of thought, but seriously, 90+% of the stuff in porn is plain circus freak stuff.

Hmm. And what is a "normal" person ?

And those few you consider "normal", are you sure they meet your normalcy criteria sex wise ?
 
I've personally known at least 3 that have done all those things you describe here and even more maybe I should not mention here.
You might be surprised at what men and women do or find sexual. "Regular" people can often put porn to shame.



Neither have I, but that didn't stop an old boss of mine getting caught boning one of the sales girls after hours when they thought everyone had left.


I dunno. Most people are circus freaks. I wouldn't consider many of the above actions you mention as being those of "normal" people.

I'm not the "lights out, missionary only" school of thought, but seriously, 90+% of the stuff in porn is plain circus freak stuff.

Hmm. And what is a "normal" person ?

And those few you consider "normal", are you sure they meet your normalcy criteria sex wise ?

As Doctor Ruth once said, "Whatever is normal for you is normal". ;):lol:
 
As Doctor Ruth once said, "Whatever is normal for you is normal". ;):lol:
Knowing folks in interior design and construction, let's just say: There's some freaks out there that look "normal'.

According to them they're seeing more and more requests for adult "play rooms" in their designs-- sex dens more or less for mom and dad. Best part was one of them said "And this was the deacon of the church asking me to design a sex dungeon for him and his wife" :lol:
 
As Doctor Ruth once said, "Whatever is normal for you is normal". ;):lol:
Knowing folks in interior design and construction, let's just say: There's some freaks out there that look "normal'.

According to them they're seeing more and more requests for adult "play rooms" in their designs-- sex dens more or less for mom and dad. Best part was one of them said "And this was the deacon of the church asking me to design a sex dungeon for him and his wife" :lol:


It has been a long held theory of mine that so-called religious people are the biggest freaks out there. :shifty:
 
What's funnier-- or creepier-- is that the man and woman he was talking about are great-grandparents in their 70s. So I was standing stuck between laughing and go "ewwww, I think I'm going to throw up."

But comedy aside, yeah it's the "quiet ones". I've had convos with "conservative" friends that some how tracks onto sex and then I'm left saying "Uh...yeah...okay then, didn't need to know that about you"
 
A lot of that actually dates back to the Puritans who weren't so Puritanical once God said it was okay to fornicate. There are Puritan marriage manuals that are rather surprising in their frankness. Pre-marital sex earned you the eternal hellfires, but after you were married you could go to town all you want.
 
I wonder if the answers here would be very different if the question was changed to "would you go out on a date with/have a one night stand with" a porn star. I don't think I am going out on a limb much here to say a lot of the guys here on the board probably have a good deal of experience with porn, and probably have favorite "actresses". If you got a chance to have sex with your favorite starlet would you jump at it?

Or would the answers change much if the involvement in the porn industry was at a more respectable level. Would you have a problem if your girlfriend was a softcore star or posed for Playboy. Would you jump at the opportunity to have sex with the Playmate of the Year if you could?

Vicki Richter, Areeya, Liz Vicious, or Vaniity I would jump at the opportunity, yes I would. :bolian:

The wilder the sex, the BETTER. :cool:
 
I've also never known a woman who wears high heels during intercourse, wants to be slapped, or be told she's a slut/whore.

I've personally known at least 3 that have done all those things you describe here and even more maybe I should not mention here.
You might be surprised at what men and women do or find sexual. "Regular" people can often put porn to shame.

Mirror? Holy hell, I've never boned an office worker at work, the delivery girl, or the like.

Neither have I, but that didn't stop an old boss of mine getting caught boning one of the sales girls after hours when they thought everyone had left.


I dunno. Most people are circus freaks. I wouldn't consider many of the above actions you mention as being those of "normal" people.

I'm not the "lights out, missionary only" school of thought, but seriously, 90+% of the stuff in porn is plain circus freak stuff.

Considering that many of the pron star people I speak to, in person and online, they do it by choice, no one's pointing a gun to their heads. And many of them enjoy their work. :bolian:

Only circus freak is Ron Jeremy. :rommie:
 
My cousin once dated an up and coming pornstar in the early 2000's. He literally said that her 'hotness' was all for the screen, that her own worth as a person was pretty low and always needed positive reinforcement to be happy with herself. She was not an evil/bad person though, but asking "am I good/beautiful/seductive enough for you?" got on his nerves. Plus she was pretty average in bed, even though she did 'swallow' in a few of her movies, she outright told him she hated blowjobs outside of the set. :lol: He was also a civilian on some of her sets and he had nothing but good praises for all the people working on her shoot, including other pornstars. They were a couple for about a year until she .. uhm.. cheated on him with another 'male talent' and he couldn't handle it and broke up with her. :guffaw:
 
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