I'm sorry, Autistoid, but I don't see autism (or Asperger's) in any of these characters, especially Worf or Spock.
As a Aspie myself, I'd like to hope that this condition is dealt with better by the 23rd and 24th centuries, and that it's either eliminated or at lest lessened. I've suffered enough of this condition in life (being a failure in school due to no early diagnosis and treatment, having behavioral difficulties that led to my being dropped out of the school system, being medicated at 16 and 17 on meds that made me drowsy if I didn't take the medication right, ending up on social assistance at 17 [and still being on it now in my mid-40's]) to not want it in me or anybody else; as one blogger put it, a life form that can't adjust to change is doomed, and that's what most autistics are like (at least, that's how she saw it.
Don't for a second think I don't appreciate your troubles.
Or many of the troubles that are faced by people on the spectrum.
I really believe there is a large degree of hope for people on the spectrum, and I think without question things are getting better and better day by day.
I have more than a few friends that can't work, that are on powerful antidepressants(even when everything about their situation says these are the worst possible things for them)
I also know people like myself who have faced fundamental issues with schooling and education, myself, girlfriend, brother etc all included in that.
However things appear to be clearly getting better fast.
Ironically if vulcan beliefs are in reality an exstension of greek stoic beliefs, there is another direct connection to stoicism.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_behavioral_therapy
Cognitive behavioral therapy is an exstension of stoic beliefs and I think it's an extremely useful tool for those on the spectrum.
People often focus on it's usefulness with depression which of course can help just about anybody.
However I think it has far more valuable benefits to those on the spectrum.
When you factor in issues like sensory intergration( your brain going haywire when trying to balance it's 5 senses)
Extreme anxiety levels.
Inability to collect objective social information on those around you, due to empathy issues. (i.e. trying to interact with people you don't understand requires some form of stradegy)
Or difficulties relating to executive function.(we struggle when asked to switch tasks)
It's one of my beliefs that the primary issue facing people on the spectrum is that were not programmed.
Your average person has a set of instincts and social behaviors that makes them ideal for learning by exposure.
People on the spectrum however must learn things intelletually including how to regulate their emotions.
However no one goes to grade school to get taught how to think and reflect on their emotions, how to be objective in situations etc. It's a strange way of thinking to the average person but for someone on the spectrum it's crucial.
We have to deal with a great deal of internal struggle, however I think there is a great deal of hope.
Objectively the intellectual capacity is there.
Most people on the spectrum, that have their issues caused by more directly autism, appear to have the same amount of brain power as anyone else.
This appears to be a rather consistant finding.
Of course the ability to channel this brain power seems to be severly lacking.
Despite the objective that the potential is there, people seem to put up alot of mental barriers, that are based on unfortunate circumstance rather than actual research.
Don't get me wrong I don't think all problems can be solved, and I don't think any of this will happen all in one decade, however the potential seems to be rather clear.
I look at vulcans as being a prime examples of what can happen when a different style of thinking is embraced..