In short, there's no message there. No deeper meaning. No comment on the human condition or anything. It's just a load of flashy things that encourage you not to think. Whereas, all the others had...
Trek XI certainly isn't a perfect film, and most of the criticisms the thread raises are legitimate. But to say that there is *no* depth or message is incorrect. In fact, the film states its message explicitly by way of Sarek,“You are fully capable of deciding your own destiny. The question you face is: Which path will you choose. This is something only you can decide.”That is a powerful message and the statement holds true for both Spock and Kirk and to a lesser extent, the rest of the crew (McCoy deciding to join Starfleet in the wake of a divorce, for example). Now, certainly, one can debate the effectiveness of the message, or the depths to which the movie goes to explore that message. I tend to agree that this film isn't as deep as the best that Trek has had to offer. But that's different than outright denying that such a message exists in the first place.
That's not a message, that's a fortune cookie!