Then stop looking for mates that are Trek fans.
None of the women I've ever dated were. If they like the person you are, then they'll come to "tolerate" your love of sci-fi..................just as long as you "tolerate" what she enjoys as well.
I guarantee you that most of the married men on this board are bigger sci-fi fans than their wives.
It was a joke, I'm not looking for a woman, Star Trek fan or not.
(Especially after Niorah crushed my heart under her hand made Italian heels...)