Well, the NID is just terrible, though IIRC there is a bit of hypocrisy at one point where Carter reports the situation knowing that surveillance will ensue, then gets pissed off that surveillance ensues (not counting the surveillance that IIRC then occurs without her knowledge).
I'm sure if Orlin had it to do over again he would have been less stalkerish. Ordinarily it would sound pretty...awkward...that he claims to be in love with Sam, but he gains insights into her much more quickly than we're used to. I mean, it may still have been a bit premature, but you don't need to be an alien before (thinking you're) falling in love before it's actually happened.
I don't know how much of it was the actor's choices versus the direction, but Orlin's unusual physical mannerisms, at least early on, are great as well, and his emotions are played so openly that it's impossible (for me at least) not to empathize with him. And the actor played Young Indiana Jones!
I'm sure if Orlin had it to do over again he would have been less stalkerish. Ordinarily it would sound pretty...awkward...that he claims to be in love with Sam, but he gains insights into her much more quickly than we're used to. I mean, it may still have been a bit premature, but you don't need to be an alien before (thinking you're) falling in love before it's actually happened.
I don't know how much of it was the actor's choices versus the direction, but Orlin's unusual physical mannerisms, at least early on, are great as well, and his emotions are played so openly that it's impossible (for me at least) not to empathize with him. And the actor played Young Indiana Jones!