I won't be shocked if it's revealed that the Shepherd commander was modeled on the Visitors from the end of CE3K.
Mourned later after the crisis is over? Sure. In private? Sure. Off-screen? No. That's the sort of thing that ought to be part of the narrative.
Hard disagree. One of Patrick Stewart's best performances as Jean-Luc Picard was when he was bawling his eyes out in his family's vineyard. That's Humanity.Hard disagree. Some on-screen stoicism is A-okay. Toughness in the face of adversity is to be admired. Cry in private. (Off-screen)
Hard disagree. Some on-screen stoicism is A-okay. Toughness in the face of adversity is to be admired. Cry in private. (Off-screen)
What we expect from fiction isn't what we expect from reality.That is a deeply unhealthy way of viewing human psychology that perpetuates trauma, suffering, and unhealthy coping mechanisms.
What we expect from fiction isn't what we expect from reality.
I cannot possibly disagree more.But works of fiction reflect our values. If the narrative is designed to avoid depicting the consequences (grief and trauma) of horrific events (the deaths of loved ones) while telling the audience to enjoy seeing heroic figures endure those horrific events, then the narrative is sending a message to the audience about what kind of values to hold and how real people ought to behave.
I cannot possibly disagree more.
There's plenty of hurt and misery in real life. And there's also plenty to learn from real life. When I watch fiction I want to be entertained. I don't watch a movie and think "oh, the character's acting that way so I should do that to." I get no message or lesson from fiction.
Well-written works of fiction can reflect our values, as you say, and they can reflect a lot of things. But they should draw from life, not the other way around.
They grow up that way because real people tell them that. How many people do you know weaved their own moral fabric from TV shows? They draw all this from family, friends and relations. As you say, fiction reflects our values. The ones we have already.You may think you don't, but how many children grow up thinking they're not supposed to cry to admit to hurt because they never see tough-guy hero figures in films and TV shows do so?
Media in general? Sure, because that includes non-fictional media.We all absorb values and norms from the media we consume
That's why we shouldn't hold fictional character as people to be emulated. They are simulacra wholly written by someone, and are not real people. Draw your values from real people and real events, not fictional ones.And in real life, only sociopaths incapable of love do not grieve.
They grow up that way because real people tell them that.
How many people do you know weaved their own moral fabric from TV shows?
Agreed.TL;DR: Do what SNW and DIS are doing: Depict grief and trauma honestly. Don't do what TOS and most of TNG did by ignoring them.
Huh. Didn't notice that before. I guess the blinds are closed?Okay, no, really. What is going outside the windows in Pike's.... "quarters" during the dinner scene?
Whoah. The red button, kid. Don't ever push the red button.Huh. Didn't notice that before. I guess the blinds are closed?
I want to know what's behind this door...
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Exactly my point! They absorb it from culture. From the stuff that matters. People -- including children -- can tell the difference between reality and fiction. Quite trivially, in fact. They know one matters and the other doesn't (unless it's to argue about pointless minutiae on internet forums! Then it's WAR!)And because it's a lesson they absorb from the culture around them!
That is a much more general statement than what was contained in my question. "Influenced" and "media" could mean anything. What I'm saying is that we don't -- and certainly shouldn't -- draw morality from works of fiction, specifically.Most people are influenced by the media they consume!
Huh. Didn't notice that before. I guess the blinds are closed?
I want to know what's behind this door...
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In limited quantities, sure. But I don't watch sci-fi to see people moping around. I'm here for the adventure, with a side helping of good characters.
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