It looks like I'm the only one who says NO NO NO to any publicly displayed Spock romance because it is just too far strayed from TOS canon and I don't think the change is for the good.
I can handle some change in Trek and don't want to see the same thing over and over again but there is a certain psychological appeal to the old Spock that is being overlooked in favor of making him extra "hot".
Is this the same Spock who said in The Naked Time that "I never told my mother that I loved her", "I was ashamed of my Earth mother (and the feelings she represented)" and "I've spent my whole life hiding my feelings"? Here we see him publicly displaying affection by kissing a woman? Would not have happened in TOS. I could accept that the writers might want Spock to correct some of the mistakes of his past, but there was an appeal to him struggling with his emotions that is being overlooked.
TOS Spock's appeal goes well beyond being hot for the ladies. He also appealed to anyone struggling with their feelings. Adolescents drew inspiration from him to get through turbulent times. Scientists, computer geeks, nerdy intellectuals gravitiated to him because he was a loner struggling to repress his feelings in favor of being pure logic. He was also a loner because he didn't fit in anywhere - a feeling almost everyone experiences at some point in their lives, and many drew inspiration to persevere through those times from him. He appealed to the bi-racial, multicultural folks out there who felt torn and different. He appealed to those who were not yet comfortable with their sexuality, yet could not just ignore it (made him even hotter).
Making Spock so human, and so accepting of emotion that he would kiss Uhura publicly makes him too normal and well adjusted. Spock needs to be different, torn, uncomfortable with his feelings, struggling internally, psychologically unbalanced etc. He needs to be the one who secretly longs to be loved but simply cannot express this -- yet. He is logic over passion embodied but he struggles with this and we only rarely get glimpses of that struggle.
Not sure how the Spock/Uhura thing advanced the plot at all. For me it only served to mess up what TOS Spock and Vulcans represented, and the appeal that the Old Spock and Old Vulcans had for many. What will they do if they bring in Chapel? Another thing being overlooked is Spock's extremely high principles and commoitment to them. He wants to be a pure Vulcan, thinks their way is vastly superior to the human way, and has committed to it, a commitment the Old Spock would never take lightly. Guess I'm very uncomfortable with Spock showing emotion and any episode of TOS where he did always made us uncomfortable.