I feel just as you do.You're welcome.
Actually I'm taken aback when I notice that even fans of KM do not realize what the awful truth is.
As long as I used to be a die-hard KM fan, I always wanted to know the truth anyway. However, can you imagine my nasty surprise when I've found out the truth of the truth after many years of worship?? Boy, that was more than horrible but I had no chance than dealing with it and bearing the consequences - which were (for me) not being a Kate Mulgrew fan any longer. I still appreciate her as an actress but not as a person any more (thanks to herself). And I'm not talking about her behavior towards Jeri Ryan which may have changed my mind...this was absolutely disgusting without any doubt even though KM can be much more beastly, believe me.
I now find KM very catty.