That's the point we're making.Seriously, you mean calling him "good friend" and creating a hologram for romantic interest and then asking Chakotay for sexual advice about it wasn't a big enough clue?
Why would Janeway rub it in Chakotay's face like that about her sexual romps with someone else besides him, if she held any interest in him? Doesn't anyone see that as cruel?
I do.
Her talking about Michael to Chakotay was not any crueler than his involvement with the "free" Borg Riley or with Kellen in "Unforgettable." If two adults decide to mutually let an attraction drop, then they should be adult enough to deal with the other person's dalliances elsewhere--especially if they are really good friends.
There is no attraction, they're just good friends.