I don't consider anything since 2005 to be what I call "Iconic Star Trek." Enterprise (for all of its considerable flaws) was the last Star Trek series and Nemesis (for all of its even more considerable flaws) the last Trek movie.
I've reached a point in my life where I don't "need" more. I used to watch a guy on YouTube who called this "fanaddictism," and I agree. More and more is made but with ever-diminishing quality and returns. Star Wars is a great example and sadly, so too is Trek.
I'm content with the following: TOS, TAS, Star Trek Continues, the TOS films (GEN doesn't count) and DS9. That's all I'll ever "need" and despite countless rewatches over decades, it's more than enough for me. I also enjoy the great Trek comics and novels of yesteryear.
All of that said, I recognize I don't speak for everyone and don't begrudge folks for liking Abrams/Kurtzman Trek.