I am a fan of the story lines and characters of Star Trek, especially of TOS and the Kelvinverse movies. The visuals are just the icing on the cake.if you are a fan of the look of JJ Trek then you logically should be agreeing with what I am saying, not looking for things to create conflict over.
That's actually, believe it or not, where I disagree with you. It's tempting to think that the "old stuff" was the best it ever was and they should go back to what they did before if they want to be successful, but that's not actually true at all. That's how we FEEL about the old stuff, and how we FELT when we first watched it. The new productions aren't supposed to evoke old feelings, they're supposed to produce that same reaction -- wonder, empathy, understanding, introspection and imagination -- in a totally new story in a totally new way. Which, ironically, is exactly what it was like to watch Star Trek for the FIRST time before you had any preconceptions about what you expected to see and what it was "supposed" to be like.
That's what happens when you love something: you constantly discover what it IS, not painstakingly compare it to what it used to be.