WHEN will see a male Vulcan in a pony tail, when when when..
Even the Fusion Vulcans sported the same bowl cuts.
Okay Sybok was a wild dude, but is he the only fashion rebel among the male gender in Vulcan town?
I can point you to some illustrated online fanfic that says there are other male Vulcan social rebels... the character is not only a fashion rebel, he's also a red-haired Vulcan.
As far as I know, we never knew that Vulcan women didn't go thru pon farr. I always assumed they did, and that T'Pring's pon farr just hadn't happened yet. No reason that her pon farr cycle would be in synch with Spock's.
There's every reason that her pon farr cycle would be in synch with Spock's, because otherwise the cycle would come at less than 7-year intervals.
I think the different reactions of Spock and T'Pol are differences between the two individuals and doesn't have to be seen as a gender difference.
I'd think pon farr would cause chaos, that's part of why the Vulcans are so secretive and ashamed of it. I don't see how or why Spock and T'Pring's cycles would be in synch, as they weren't even around each other. Perhaps in a traditional marriage or engagement the couple's frequent proximity would have synched their pon farr cycle up thru hormones and what not, much in the way that women who lived together often sych up their menstral cycles.
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T'Pring is beautiful and scheaming, but very cool headed. She's not going thru pon farr. Stonn shows signs of emotion when T'Pring doesn't choose him as her champion. He probably just has poor control of his emotions, the Vulcan equivilant of being big, dumb and pretty, but it does occur to me you could make an argument that his lack of control could be due to early onset of pon farr.
I never thought about it before, but Stonn almost certainly would have a fiancee of his own out there somewhere. This whole scenerio is probably the Vulcan version of the Jerry Springer Show, no wonder T'Pau is in such a bad mood at having to be faced with so much drama, and in front of humans no less.
First of all, Spock and T'Pring's cycles
are in synch (well, they were before the events of Amok Time). A psychic bond would have been established between them at their betrothal at age 7, so that when the Time came later, they would both be drawn to Koon-ut-kal-i-fee. It has nothing whatsoever to do with how close they are to one another physically. If physical proximity were the case, married Vulcans wouldn't ever be allowed off the planet!
How do we know T'Pring isn't going through pon farr? As you say, she's cold and scheming... and has a hell of a lot better emotional control than either Spock or Stonn (unless you count greed as an emotion).
As for Stonn, some of us discussed his case in another thread. I made the arguments that it's possible that Stonn did have a fiancee but she died young, or perhaps he was never betrothed at all. In a society where most marriages are arranged for the mutual benefit of both families, it's entirely possible that Stonn was rejected on any number of grounds, from intelligence, lack of emotional control, career prospects, his family's social or financial standing, or how many degrees of separation his lineage might be to some ancient noble family. Or maybe Stonn's parents might not have believed in arranged marriages and let their son choose. We don't get to know why he's unmarried and unbetrothed in this episode.