I had a similar discussion with another member who felt age was an issue when it concerned Spock and Saavik in TWOK and Spock and Valeris in TUC; and I feel as woman as long as the person is of legal age the two can be together. Age differences shouldn't matter as long as they're of legal age and they have feelings for each other. Age is just a number and I wish we can have children over 50 but it's not the nature of things, but one can only love who she thinks is compatible in the eyes of the beholder. Jadzia and Sisko were just fine in my book, if it happened.