People with trauma and PTSD aren’t a minority group that have to deal with an extremely high rate of violent attacks and murder.
It should also be noted that showing in this case trans people dealing with violence and discrimination is generally the only story that gets told about them, seeing a trans person living a fulfilling life is a rarity. It’s sends the message that only life a trans person gets is one where they face violence and discrimination. Why must the conflict a LGBTQ person deals with on a show have to be their status as a LGBTQ person? So far Discovery has done an excellent job of avoid it. The conflicts that Stamets and Culber face are based on what they do and their relationship with each other. Adira and Grey face conflict by the fact that Grey is some sort of memory ghost thing. None of it has to do with them being a gay couple or two trans teenagers, nor should it be. Trek exploring those stories is a step backwards and terrible representation. Having them being themselves and nothing about their identity questioned at all is better representation than a million stories about someone facing discrimination. While that may have helped you learn empathy, it actively harms LGBTQ people.
My broader point was that I've liked how Trek has historically tackled serious issues are relevant in the real world. I used stories about bigotry in general as an example of this broader point. Now we are talking about something even more specific, violence against LGBTQ, with the implication that I want to see this on Discovery, which is pretty far away from what I was originally trying to say (and not something I was even thinking about until you brought it up). I'm perfectly happy with a story about Odo and the things he has to deal with being a shapeshifter in a world full of solids. The stories can relate to real world issues without being specifically about them (e.g. I don't need a specific story about black racism). It's also not like there's certain type of issues I want to see more than others, anything that has substance to it is fine by me. So for example, I liked Detmer's PTSD arc.
Your point about people not wanting to see their personal trauma on screen is a valid one, my response point was that other groups (e.g. people with PTSD) may not want their trauma on screen either, but I'm not really interested in advancing this as I assume it would involve rating various traumas on the 1 to 10 scale and then figuring out the threshold of what is acceptable to portray on screen vs. not. You are welcome to do so, but I have nothing to add as I have no objective basis to compare the pain of a mental disorder with the pain of discrimination.