There was a Star Trek fanfilm series that explored interspecies gay sex, where they used the phrase "Ridged for my pleasure".
I grew up cheering on Ethan's pursuit of the girl in Benson, so I'm used to him being the romantic lead.
I grew up cheering on Ethan's pursuit of the girl in Benson, so I'm used to him being the romantic lead.

That is absolutely true. I'd wind up having Troi restrict my holodeck use and be in group therapy with Barclay.