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TBBS and treatment of women

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Could re up the rating to Trek BBS? I mean, a series hasn't been on the air in 6 years. What's the chance that any fans are under 18?

Leaving aside the joky nature of this post, I'd actually prefer making this an 18 board. But that's probably because I basically only post in the non-Trek parts of the board.
I'm being somewhat-serious. How many kids are we expecting the franchise to pick up these days since it only airs sporadically on SyFy and BBC America (in the US, check local listings)?
 
Yeah, we call them wife beaters too. I was never physically abused by my first husband (he may have been a royal asshole, but he never hit me). But certainly, that would be terribly offensive to some women.
Not to mention plenty of men who wear that style of shirt. I don't wear them, yet I still can't bring myself to use that term.

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What do you call them? Not that they come up in conversation a lot im sure.....:guffaw:
 
To us Brits, 'Wife Beater' is slang for Stella Artois lager, and the reason is hopefully obvious.

Oh I understand that completely, and actually, I'm sure most who use that term on this side of the pond are in the same boat. It's for me saying those words, even understanding the context, does not feel right.

What do you call them? Not that they come up in conversation a lot im sure.....:guffaw:
:lol: - true that. I use the term "A-shirt".
 
To us Brits, 'Wife Beater' is slang for Stella Artois lager, and the reason is hopefully obvious.

Oh I understand that completely, and actually, I'm sure most who use that term on this side of the pond are in the same boat. It's for me saying those words, even understanding the context, does not feel right.


wah. I don't understand it. I even had to google the beer.


ETA: Neroon: "A shirt". Come to think of it, that's what the packaging says for those shirts, isn't it?
 
Maybe I'm just old but my friends and I just refer to them as tank tops, muscle shirts or sleeveless undershirts.
 
I thought the point you were making (amongst others) was querying the mass use of the word tits by women. I assure you American women use it just as much as anyone else. Just because it's taboo for you doesn't mean it is for everyone. In the great scheme of things it's not a terrible word. While we're at it; this is a global board so I find it offensive that anyone who isn't American is treated like a second class citizen.

Sorry for skipping a few hundred posts. I'm just reading through this post and wanted to add that a while ago I notified on someone calling some one else a spastic. Now I found this truly offence given it was from a High School teacher as well. The person I notified on wasn't given an infraction for what ever because, and this shows the double standards of some posters about using the word tits is because: The poster in question is American and it means something else over here.

So yeah, I'm with Deckerd on this. If Americans can "get away" with calling someone a spastic, I'm sure saying tits up should be perfectly fine as well.
 
I thought the point you were making (amongst others) was querying the mass use of the word tits by women. I assure you American women use it just as much as anyone else. Just because it's taboo for you doesn't mean it is for everyone. In the great scheme of things it's not a terrible word. While we're at it; this is a global board so I find it offensive that anyone who isn't American is treated like a second class citizen.

Sorry for skipping a few hundred posts. I'm just reading through this post and wanted to add that a while ago I notified on someone calling some one else a spastic. Now I found this truly offence given it was from a High School teacher as well. The person I notified on wasn't given an infraction for what ever because, and this shows the double standards of some posters about using the word tits is because: The poster in question is American and it means something else over here.

So yeah, I'm with Deckerd on this. If Americans can "get away" with calling someone a spastic, I'm sure saying tits up should be perfectly fine as well.

To be fair, it is completely unfair to start handing out infractions for words that, to the poster in question, are innocuous. I, in fact, nearly handed out an infraction for the 'spastic' remark as I found it as vile and unacceptable as, say, 'faggot', but before I did I was told that to Americans the word is perfectly acceptable and doesn't carry the same meaning as here. I actually think that on that score, this board does a good job of being fair and taking national differences into account. We had a similar discussion over the word 'twat', which had the opposite problem.
 
Could re up the rating to Trek BBS? I mean, a series hasn't been on the air in 6 years. What's the chance that any fans are under 18?

Leaving aside the joky nature of this post, I'd actually prefer making this an 18 board. But that's probably because I basically only post in the non-Trek parts of the board.
I'm being somewhat-serious. How many kids are we expecting the franchise to pick up these days since it only airs sporadically on SyFy and BBC America (in the US, check local listings)?


So that's why we can't all be adults here? Because somebody actually is thinking of the children? Damm kids always riding their bikes across my message board.:klingon:
 
I thought the point you were making (amongst others) was querying the mass use of the word tits by women. I assure you American women use it just as much as anyone else. Just because it's taboo for you doesn't mean it is for everyone. In the great scheme of things it's not a terrible word. While we're at it; this is a global board so I find it offensive that anyone who isn't American is treated like a second class citizen.

Sorry for skipping a few hundred posts. I'm just reading through this post and wanted to add that a while ago I notified on someone calling some one else a spastic. Now I found this truly offence given it was from a High School teacher as well. The person I notified on wasn't given an infraction for what ever because, and this shows the double standards of some posters about using the word tits is because: The poster in question is American and it means something else over here.

So yeah, I'm with Deckerd on this. If Americans can "get away" with calling someone a spastic, I'm sure saying tits up should be perfectly fine as well.
Well, if you skipped a "few hundred posts," then it should come as no surprise to anyone that you've gone and missed the point. There was nothing in the original remark which implied an opinion that the word "tits" ought never to be used.

Far from it, in fact. Here, read it yourself and you'll see that it was quite clearly a comment concerning the use of the word in one particular context; that is all it was, and the OP agreed with the commenter. Exchange complete. Done. Finito.

Now, do we really need to take a misread of that post which has already gotten far more mileage than it ever merited and flog it around the block all over again? That tangent went tits up several pages back and I think it would have been well to leave it lie where it was (never mind the attempt to re-hash an old warning outside of the forum prescribed for such matters. ;) )
 
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