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Hell, humans are emotional, and we're not monolithic at all. You get everything from the warm welcoming everybody's friend to the outright hateful and violent bigot. Surely Vulcan would have its fair share of outliers, if nothing else, among billions of people.I think we have seen enough to know they are not monolithic, even in their approach to the Surakian traditions. In "Yesteryear" Spock, posing as a cousin, states he is there to honor the families gods. So there are multiple traditions and paths running through Vulcan culture, as I would expect.
Speaking of Surakian teachings, look at, for example, Christianity, a faith founded on the teachings of a man who taught to love your neighbor, give freely of what you receive, and to judge not your neighbor while committing wrongful acts yourself, and then look at Christians. Again, you get everything from the warm, kind, compassionate Christian who wants you to be safe and happy, all the way to the extremist, violent bigot who wants to kill you for being slightly different in your beliefs.
No one people is a monolith. That's always been an issue I've had with Star Trek. I usually let it go because Star Trek's about teaching human lessons and using different alien species as aspects of humanity, but when it comes to storytelling it can often be limited, which is why it's nice to see nuances in the modern shows.
Also, I liked T'Pring's father. I bet he and Pike would get along swimmingly outside the influence of his wife.