To perhaps answer far too earnestly, I have never met anyone who wasn’t nursing a wound of some sort so protective behavior such as overcompensation is to be expected. Interacting with others presses on less of my own metaphorical bruises if I maintain a belief that every harsh word hides a vulnerability. Even if someday I am proven wrong in that assumption, treating everyone with compassion helps me live the life I want.
A sensible philosophy, if for no other reason than it mitigates much interpersonal conflict. That said, it seems logical that there would be a proportionally greater amount of...hm..."posturing"?...among those with a proportionally greater amount of responsibility (and leadership of hundreds certainly fits the bill!).