More preferable than "I'm trying to save you all" Mikey Burnham. (actual dialogue from the pilot).
Jack is a character with a lot of room for growth, especially if he's put on trial.
If anything he's Seven's own 'Tom Paris'
You're not even trying to hide your bias. Most people at least try to put up a front. Though, to be honest, I'm not going to say what you think I will about it: I like that you put out there where you stand. You're naked about your open hypocrisy.
And I have no doubt that if Jack ever said, "I'm trying to save you all!", you'd find a way to say, "Yeah! But that's different!" But you'd also leave out the silent part, "Because he's male!"
That's why you'd rather not have Seven be the star of the show, even though she would be the Captain. And, in any other Star Trek series, -- including
Discovery -- you'd think the show should focus on the Captain who would be the Main Hero. To say you're okay with a different type of arrangement in
Picard but not
Discovery is a double-standard. There's no two ways about it, from what I can see.
If it's not a double-standard, then I'd love to hear your explanation for how it's not. With specifics. Absolute Candor.