Context really does matter. Am I going to watch my language if I'm speaking at a grade-school library? Of course. Am I going to be less circumspect if I'm doing a midnight horror panel at a convention, in front of an audience composed entirely entirely of adults? Sure.
Same thing with fiction. Am I going to throw the f-word all over a kid's book? Nope. If I'm writing an UNDERWORLD or TERMINATOR novel, based on an R-rated franchise? Sure. Why not?
Geography is also a factor. One adjusts one's dialogue according to your environment. How one talks while hanging out with your grown-up friends in Brookyn or Greenwich Village can be different than when visiting an Amish market in rural Pennsylvania. You just need to be sensitive to the setting.
It's funny. I was in North Carolina a few years back and was mildly startled when a fellow apologized for telling a slightly off-color story "in mixed company."
Seriously? That was a still a thing?
Even in SF fandom, you can run into slightly different cultures and mores depending where you are -- and you adjust your language accordingly.
And, again, profanity doesn't necessarily involve people angrily screaming abuse at each other. Often, in my experience, it can be employed to humorous effect, just for emphasis.
"What the fuck? Is that actually an ostrich running down the street?"
Same thing with fiction. Am I going to throw the f-word all over a kid's book? Nope. If I'm writing an UNDERWORLD or TERMINATOR novel, based on an R-rated franchise? Sure. Why not?
Geography is also a factor. One adjusts one's dialogue according to your environment. How one talks while hanging out with your grown-up friends in Brookyn or Greenwich Village can be different than when visiting an Amish market in rural Pennsylvania. You just need to be sensitive to the setting.
It's funny. I was in North Carolina a few years back and was mildly startled when a fellow apologized for telling a slightly off-color story "in mixed company."
Seriously? That was a still a thing?
Even in SF fandom, you can run into slightly different cultures and mores depending where you are -- and you adjust your language accordingly.
And, again, profanity doesn't necessarily involve people angrily screaming abuse at each other. Often, in my experience, it can be employed to humorous effect, just for emphasis.
"What the fuck? Is that actually an ostrich running down the street?"
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