OK, I'm starting to think you and I are having some serious miscommunication issues here these last few days, because you are completely misunderstanding what I am saying and focusing on the wrong thing.Which is exactly as sexist and wrong as saying "If she hadn't dressed revealingly she wouldn't have been raped." All you're doing is doubling down on the slut-shaming and victim-blaming.
I'm not talking about the sexual, slut shaming aspects of this at all. All I'm saying is that is not a good idea to put yourself in a position where things you do not want to be made public can get out. It's not about the pictures, or this specific situation, I'm just talking about personal things being made public in general.