I can appreciate your survey of Voyager, and find your comments to be similar to my own thoughts. That said, I think that each show gets its own fair share of being maligned, as well as being celebrated as the best (INS actually had comments that it broke the odd number rule).I don't think there really is a "Hate" for the nuTrek movies. (Well OK I will confess a mild degree of loathing over the newer ship designs and sense of aesthetic over traditional well thought out function. But that's just a matter of personal taste.) The nuTrek stuff is mostly good Trek. Adding action is great. Although there are some fair criticism's, especially with Into Darkness, that they added too much action and too many set pieces without any real solid underlying story. There is a happy medium to be found. You can both tell an engaging thoughtful and deep story and still include plenty of action. Here's hoping Beyond finds a better balance.
As for the rest. People have their favorites. People bicker on the internet. Yes Voyager is often the most maligned. But honestly no it is not because Men didn't like Janeway. It was more that it felt like for much of its run the show had poor editorial or character control over the writers room. Resulting in inconsistent and often contradictory feeling characters, while at the same time the showrunners were so determined to "make it a Star Trek Show" that they only seemed to cycle through a small number of seemingly repetitive stories that were more in line with traditional Trek. They remained trapped in the box of nostalgia and "homage to Gene" and rarely stepped outside to take advantage of the differences that Voyager offered. DS9 faired better as the black sheep of the family. The suits weren't paying so much attention to it, so they had room to be different. To explore more "non traditional Trek" areas, such as War, without anybody giving them any pushback. Enterprise originally suffered horribly from being stuffed in the "box" but eventually they attempted to move away from that and take advantage of what the show offered. (sadly not fast enough). One thing that gives me hope for the new show with Bryan Fuller is he does seem to be a point of balance, based on his track record. Yes he was highly and deeply involved in Voyager, and its traditional Trek "box". But at the same time his credited episodes include a few that are among the most refreshingly different. Such as Bride of Chaotica (As great a use of Janeway as there ever was.)
I will disagree that Abrams Trek isn't hated. It might be on the low end of the cycle, but when it first came out the rhetoric was in the extremes. I recall one thread on another site titled "Abrams should be found guilty of heresy against Star Trek" and listed out their grievances about how Abrams violated everything that Star Trek stood for, and raped Star Trek's past.
I'm sure this is true of other shows and films, and I find it only because I enjoy researching about Abrams Trek, but Abrams is much maligned in some circles and his movies regarded as worst of all. While it may be examples of extremism, no doubt that others can be found as well, I would disagree on the point that Abrams films are not "hated." I think they get their fair share of hyperbolic beatings.