They are, essentially the same damned layout. The only difference is that the Abrams bridge is more of an oval with extra stations and access to a deck. Which makes sense, since it is the command center for the whole damned starship.
I don't think people honestly know why they dislike things. They just throw things out there and hope no one questions it.
I might have added a bit more color to the bridge. But as far as layout goes, they hit the ball out of the park.
I can't believe someone is arguing functionality of two versions of a fake spaceship!