To be fair, so far the Enterprise has faced an enormously mutated 24th century vessel flown by a madman, and a designed-to-be-a-juggernaut battleship captained by a corrupt admiral with nothing to lose.
Kinda gonna take a beating in those circumstances.
Yeah but come on 2 movies in a row the Enterprise goes up against a big black ship that's way more powerful. Talk about repeat. I would rather have saw a cool battle in which the Enterprise got in a few good shots. The reason TWOK was so great was the battles were more interesting and the battles were determined on who was the better strategist not who had the big bad ship.