I'm... a freak. I would have to say I have hard and soft elements of all three.
I've seen every episode of every series, own them all on DVD, and I find something to like about every one, (Except maybe "Shades of Grey") even though I have no illusions about "Gene's vision" stuff, and I will still make fun of it even while I enjoy it.
I have a copy of pretty much every Star Trek book ever written, even and/or pdf copies of really old fan manuals, out-of-print RPG's. I don't bother to memorize minutiae, but on the other hand my brain seems to hold a different point-of-view on that subject - it usually takes me about three seconds to identify an episode - even if I can't remember the title, I know what it's about.
I am mad for ships. I've got all the Eaglemoss figurines and a bunch of the old Micromachines, as well as the vast majority of AMT/Ertl & Polar Lights models. I've even - badly - kitbashed a few models on my own. I bought Jackill's manuals, saved all of TFVanguard/Vance's kits and pdfs, and ordered the Master Starships books from Starfleet Battles. I have organized spreadsheet lists of Star Trek ships in all media I can get ahold of and am always looking for more. OTOH I could not care less how long the Defiant is, or whether phasers are more or less powerful than disruptors (and don't talk to me about turbolasers.)
I leave my wife to worry about boring things like plot and characterization. I'm just having a GOOD TIME.
