Just remember, you brought race into the conversation. I see it as any woman using privilege to talk down to anyone, which Keiko does quite often to Miles. It's only racial, if you want to make it about race. That's definitely not satire, it's just the situation.
See:Fascination,Data's Day, and every episode where Nyres is carrying their child. Miles literally goes out of his way to please his wife. Walks on eggshells around her, and she still tells him what to do every step of the way.
I've tried to talk about this tastefully, and for that matter the original question only has a little to do with this, and then others really wanted to drag race and gender into this. I'm going to be blashphemous and say:
It's ok to not like every character on every show you like. Even those of different races or genders. It's not always some anti-woman, racial, or misogynistic thing.