I'll make sure in the future I'm Vulcan kinda clinical in my wording on this board.
Thank you.
The difference between these two things. I'm stating an opinion about a TV show, and if what I see is an awful picture, yes, that's how I'm going to paint it. So far you've brought up that some people that think Keiko sucks don't know what a relationship, are mysogynistic, and that it's our way of thinking that's the problem. You're attacking the mess anger, not the message.
Well, you are not wrong, you are talking about a television marriage, and I'm talking about what people's opinion about said marriage tells me about them. Not
all of them, mind you, which I specifically pointed out in my first post in this thread. But
some of them. I'm not trying to talk about you specifically or any specific person in this thread. I'm talking about a general trend I am and have been perceiving for a long time in online discussions about Keiko.
I'm well aware your original post wasn't specifically about “Keiko sucks”, which is why I wasn't replying to you in my first post in this thread, but to another poster perceiving a similar trend of people opining about Keiko.
Keiko might be a fictional character, but subjects like gender relations, gender stereotypes, sexism, misogyny and feminism are very real and also dear to me personally. The way media portraits women, relationships, marriages, gender roles etc. and the way we as an audience perceive them and talk about them are real and important to me, because they do tend to inform how we as a society act on them in our relationships with others. And sorry not sorry, but the Keiko/Miles relationship just brings up all these kind of topics, whether you intended them to be brought up or not.
Look, this is a discussion board. People start a thread with a topic and then it's like a room where people are taking that topic and talk about it. You can't steer where a discussion goes or how people are going to talk about it. I know it might be frustrating, but that's just how online discussions work, I'm afraid.
You just seem to be talking down on people …
Well, I'm genuinely sorry that that's how you perceive me. I respect you and your opinion and as I said, I don't think there's anything wrong with not liking Keiko. I didn't want to talk about you specifically, but a general “you”.