So many of the myriad complaints about Abrams Trek come down to one thing when accounting for source and which elements are being complained about; they all strike me as so much "It's wrong because it's not how I would have done it." And that's how it strikes me not only here, but across the 'net.
^ How is that any different than people who like/love the movies, just because they do?
Simple. Liking/loving the movie, or any movie, just because they do isn't quantifiable. It's opinion, expressed as opinion. Conversely, "It's wrong because it's not how I would have done it" is very quantifiable, opinion expressed as fact. The reason being that they're saying "It's wrong" rather than "I don't like it". When the reason they're saying "It's wrong" is merely that they don't like it, not because of some quantifiable quality about it that's intrinsically wrong, bad or destructive.
Simply put, "It's wrong because it's not how I would have done it" means nothing more and nothing less than "It's not how I would have done it, therefore I don't like it, therefore it's wrong, and anyone who disagrees with me is also wrong."