Then she started crying...

[nevermore]

Eh, if it was something the OP did, she would have said something. She has some baggage, and frankly, if she doesn't want to talk about it, its not his business to pry it out of her. , They're both adults (presumably), and he's under no obligation to (and as I said, really has not buisness) making her talk about her issues, just because they slept together and those issues came to a boil. She's probably embarrassed as all hell too. Let her be.

 

[TheLonelySquire]

I say she was "cycling" and just emotional.

She's a hockey player?

 

[Shatmandu]

long story story short.... this female has been coming onto me heavily. From the first time I met her she's been throwing herself at me over the last month or so .. so I figured what the hell... go for it. Go over to her place and we're.. in thw throes of passion when she starts crying... I thought she was into it... then realized she was crying.... but since I was at that point I finish up...

Sounds like you were a terrible lay, and she was crying out of disappointment.

Joe, dry

 

[Brutal Strudel]

If he was a terrible lay, wouldn't she be dry?

Seriously, though: sex makes some women cry. Take it as a compliment.

 

[Cakes488]

I'm ambivalent towards this thread. Not quite sure what's went on, and thus I can't be as judgmental as I want to be.

Oh please....don't let that stop you. Judge awaaaaay!

long story story short.... this female has been coming onto me heavily. From the first time I met her she's been throwing herself at me over the last month or so .. so I figured what the hell... go for it. Go over to her place and we're.. in thw throes of passion when she starts crying... I thought she was into it... then realized she was crying.... but since I was at that point I finish up...

Sounds like you were a terrible lay, and she was crying out of disappointment.

Joe, dry

A wise prophet once said that tears make the best lube....

If he was a terrible lay, wouldn't she be dry?

Seriously, though: sex makes some women cry. Take it as a compliment.

Ummm, no. I think there would no doubt if they were tears of joy.
And unless she hasn't gotten in 10 years than I doubt that's what they were.

 

[Australis]

Now that we have a bit more info, some gaps filled in, and assuming this isn't just backpedalling...

It sounds like she has issues. I've met girls like her, they've been all over me, and me, being a bit of a nerd (what a surprise) never knew how to respond, so I didn't, turned it into a joke. Later, these girls would get themselves into all kinds of the Wrong Guy. Just say to her, "Look, bit confused with what happened, maybe we can talk about it sometime, okay?" and leave it there. If she isn't going to talk to you, don't force it.

As for your gfs being nuts or whatever, if you look like your avatar, there may be a reason why you're attracting the wrong type...

 

[sidious618]

I'm not sure I get his avatar. What is it referencing?

 

[Australis]

Dunnio, looks (to me) like a South Park version of an emo/goth/self cutter.

 

[Brutal Strudel]

Seriously, though: sex makes some women cry. Take it as a compliment.

Ummm, no. I think there would no doubt if they were tears of joy.
And unless she hasn't gotten in 10 years than I doubt that's what they were.

Not tears of joy--I never said a damned thing about tears of joy. I said that sex makes some women cry. Full stop. Those women who do cry during or after sex often report that it its from a welter of emotions too complex to describe and that the act moved them in a deep and ineffable way. Such women tend to be a little nuts but...

 

[Cakes488]

Oh I guess you'd need to have feelings to experience that....glad I don't have that problem!

 

[Brutal Strudel]

Oh I guess you'd need to have feelings to experience that....glad I don't have that problem!

I think I'm in love.

 

[Mr. Laser Beam]

Oh I guess you'd need to have feelings to experience that....glad I don't have that problem!

I think I'm in love.

Me too! Hey, I'll fight you for her... *throws beer in Strudel's face*

 

[SilentP]

Oh I guess you'd need to have feelings to experience that....glad I don't have that problem!

I think I'm in love.

Me too! Hey, I'll fight you for her... *throws beer in Strudel's face*

And thusly the plan/plot continues...

 

[Deckerd]

Then she started crying...

I always know I'm going to enjoy a thread that starts like this...

Given your field of expertise, don't you ever find it strange how much ... gusto ... you have for people's problems, Dr Lecter?

 

[Shatmandu]

If he was a terrible lay, wouldn't she be dry?

Seriously, though: sex makes some women cry. Take it as a compliment.

What if it was the smell of his unwashed genitals making her eyes burn?

Joe, supposing

 

[SPOCKED]

If he was a terrible lay, wouldn't she be dry?

Seriously, though: sex makes some women cry. Take it as a compliment.

What if it was the smell of his unwashed genitals making her eyes burn?

Joe, supposing

For cripessakes, STOP this dumb-ass trolling!

 

[Deckerd]

I see what you did there.

 

[Brutal Strudel]

On a tangential note, I think we should all take heed that the guy this young lady threw herself at was so insensitive as to "finish" and leave without so much as a "sweetheart, are you okay?"

The fault, dear ladies, lies not in the cad but in the cad-worshiper.

 

[Cakes488]

If he was a terrible lay, wouldn't she be dry?

Seriously, though: sex makes some women cry. Take it as a compliment.

What if it was the smell of his unwashed genitals making her eyes burn?

Joe, supposing

For cripessakes, STOP this dumb-ass trolling!

That's trolling? Isn't that considered just "funny"???

 

[Cakes488]

On a tangential note, I think we should all take heed that the guy this young lady threw herself at was so insensitive as to "finish" and leave without so much as a "sweetheart, are you okay?"

The fault, dear ladies, lies not in the cad but in the cad-worshiper.

No I think they're both at fault.