Except that the two things aren't comparable. You can keep saying it is, but they aren't anymore than me saying that Jolene Blalock is sitting in my lap will make her suddenly appear there. All it does is illustrate how weak the Vissian's position is, because it's literally comparing a sentient, intelligent member of their own species to a lower life form that is definitely in the shallow end of the intelligence pool. You're going to compare a person who can learn to read from scratch in less than a day to an animal that sometimes manages to drown itself in the rain? Really?
"Lower" lifeforms? Who says they are lower? That's a concept which you believe because you were raised to believe that humanity is somehow more important than the other animals on this planet. I don't believe that there is such a thing as "lower" lifeforms, there's just different kinds of lifeforms with each having their own niche, ours being intelligence. But why is intelligence the measurement system by which we judge species, why not judge them by height, or weight, or sound?
Humans decided that intelligence was the most important factor in determining a species' importance and, conveniently, that put us at the top of the ladder.

If you asked a giraffe how they determine importance they'd probably choose height. So, if an alien species were to espouse the same viewpoint that I hold they could well believe that we are a reprehensible, amoral species and interfere in order to stop us from eating living beings.
And yes, I do eat meat, joyfully, but I am comfortable with the fact that I'm a hypocrite.
Yeah, it's that whole lack of sympathy for people who enslave others so they can basically rape them.
Well okay, but I'm of the opinion that genocide is a bad thing no matter what race it happens to. Except the Belgians.
Are you somehow suggesting no cogenitors would be willing to go in and donate whatever genetic material is needed the way men go in every day to jack off into a cup? They do pay men to do that, you know, even though I'm sure there are a few guys who would be willing to do it for beer and porn.
Some guys would, but not enough to maintain our species. I wouldn't do it, I'd prefer to have a family and try to raise and teach my offspring with the information which I think will be important to them, I don't want to rub one out into a cup and spend what little cash they gave me on lottery tickets. Besides, what if 20 years later I saw a woman who I found strangely attractive...
And even if all the cogenitors agreed to donate their essence in order to maintain the species, it still doesn't change that fact that Trip didn't bother to think about the consequences of his actions before he took them.
Does it really matter? Even if the apparent lack of cogenitors was completely biological does it really justify them treating the people they need to keep their species going like crap? if anything shouldn't cogenitors have been treated extra well because of their importance? Given how the Vissians seem to think of cogenitors, I honestly get the impression the reason there are so few of them is because couples abort them before they can be born or commit infanticide, sort of the way the Chinese do when they find out they're having a girl instead of a boy because they are restricted to one child and already have misogynistic tendencies ingrained in their society.
There's no reason to believe any of that, and FJ Rio's character makes it quite clear that the low number of cogenitors in the population is a natural occurrence. And remember, I'm not trying to support the oppression of the cogenitors, all I'm saying is that Trip, who knew very little about Vissian society, had no right to interfere with it.
No, it's just that everyone seems all interested in trade with the Vissians and come off as being angry that Trip exposed this aspect of their society. To me the only justifiable reason for Archer to not grant Charles asylum would be if he was risking war with the Vissians by doing so. I could even understand Archer being pissed about Trip sneaking around the way he did, but that isn't what Archer chewed him out about. Instead Archer became a hypocrite by chewing him out for "interfering."
That's not the way that I saw the episode, as I said, I clearly had the impression that Archer was uncomfortable with the Vissian captain after arriving back, the whole situation was weighing heavily on his mind.
The question becomes - how far are you willing to go? What moral values will he compromise in the name of a beneficial relationship with another culture?
Are you going to accept Theft? Rape? Slavery? Murder?
Are you going to accept those things only when the menbers of this other culture are practicing them among themselves? Or you'll accept them even when your people are being victimized by these aliens?
How far are you willing to go with this "moral relativity"? With betraying your morals?
Archer was obviously more than willing to accept slavery - and some posters seem to agree with him.
Trip was not willing to make this moral compromise - and I, along with other posters, share his opinion. This moral sacrifice lies far beyond what one should be willing to give up for the "friendship" of these aliens.
Okay, but you're going to have to do away with the Khitomer accords because the Klingons are pretty brutal. The UFP will have to stop all peace attempts with the Romulans because they enslave other races. Cardassians too. Both the Vulcans and Betazeds have a system of forced marriage, so they should probably be kicked out of the UFP... Humans aren't going to have many friends if we expect every race to conform to our values. Hell, we don't even have a common set of values, as evidenced by this thread.