Seems to me as long as the actor paying the genderless alien was made to look as neutral as possible, what would be the benefit of casting a man? Given the script called for someone who was slightly more female than male casting a female seems to make more sense. Also it's a lot kinder to Frakes considering he's straight.
I'm all for there being more diversity in Trek, and they should absolutely have found an opportunity to show that it's a non issue in the future, but I think it's a stretch to shoehorn a gay kiss for a straight actor into an episode where he is specifically attracted to someone who identifies as female.
I'm all for there being more diversity in Trek, and they should absolutely have found an opportunity to show that it's a non issue in the future, but I think it's a stretch to shoehorn a gay kiss for a straight actor into an episode where he is specifically attracted to someone who identifies as female.