From what I gather, the idea of having a main character such as Riker share a kiss with a quasi-female alien would have been considered controversial if that alien was played by a male actor?
Would it have been less controversial to have a non-main cast member, either a recurring extra such as Barclay or an entirely new (male) character, in Riker's position to have a relationship with a J'naii who was played by a male?
That way they could explore the issues that the episode was apparently trying to explore but ended up effectively ignoring those supposed issues instead all the while (as I'm sure some people would see it) somehow portraying Riker's character in a "negative" light by sharing a kiss with another man - even if they were playing a female character.
At the very least, it would have pre-avoided people making a fuss about Riker being "gay" if he'd shared a kiss with a male actor, regardless of the character's gender (or lack thereof) and thus avoiding any risk in a less offensive way than simply pretending homosexuality just doesn't exist in the first place, which is quite an achievement for an episode that's apparently trying to be allegorical about homosexuality.
Would it have been less controversial to have a non-main cast member, either a recurring extra such as Barclay or an entirely new (male) character, in Riker's position to have a relationship with a J'naii who was played by a male?
That way they could explore the issues that the episode was apparently trying to explore but ended up effectively ignoring those supposed issues instead all the while (as I'm sure some people would see it) somehow portraying Riker's character in a "negative" light by sharing a kiss with another man - even if they were playing a female character.
At the very least, it would have pre-avoided people making a fuss about Riker being "gay" if he'd shared a kiss with a male actor, regardless of the character's gender (or lack thereof) and thus avoiding any risk in a less offensive way than simply pretending homosexuality just doesn't exist in the first place, which is quite an achievement for an episode that's apparently trying to be allegorical about homosexuality.